Bookings and Concierge ( My assistant)
I’m driven by novelty and curiosity, so I’m already eager to meet you. Yes, you. (First time? Read this.)
Booking is fastest through my assistant, Rose. If you need extreme discretion, you can reach me directly.
Meet Me ( Booking Guide)
If you need an even more discreet touch, reach out to me directly using the form below. Please be patient as it may take me a day or so to reply.
Connection Methods ( Booking on the DL)
Please feel free to save my contact card and write me anytime.
I strongly prefer encrypted messaging via Signal Private Messenger. (You’ll earn a $40 USD discount off our first date if you book entirely over Signal as a thank you for helping to protect your privacy and mine. Learn how to earn more discounts….)
Please be patient as it may take a day for me to reply.
In the meantime, explore the Good Client Guide for more helpful advice about how to prepare for your date with a provider like me, or have a look at some of my hot friends.
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Signal (Bookings Only)
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Signal (All Other)
(VioletRollergirl.69) -
Email
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WhatsApp
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Text/SMS
(+1 929-5-KISS-VI) -
Zcash
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Jabber/XMPP
([email protected]) -
SimpleX
When reaching out to me directly to book, please include all of the same information that my booking form asks you to provide to receive a reply. If you don't hear back from me, or if I direct you back to my assistant, it's probably because you didn't include the information I need to book you.
Newsletter subscription
Occasionally, I send cute updates and neat announcements to friends and lovers via my newsletter. This includes information about upcoming tours, a range of special social and industry-adjacent events, and even the rare special discount or deal. Subscribing is optional, free, never X-rated, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
(Subscribing to my newsletter requires a double opt-in confirmation. When subscribed, you agree to provide some light telemetry as part of industry-standard analytics. If you want to receive tour information more discreetly, please view or subscribe to my tour calendar, instead.)
First Contact
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Please read my etiquette policies and be sure you understand my availability and rates before writing.
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You may also want to review my “do’s and don’ts” for making first contact. My FAQ page can also allay any concerns you may have.
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Especially generic messages are likely to trigger my spam filter or auto-responder; I may not see them.
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If you’d like even more handholding, I wrote a thorough step-by-step Booking Guide just for you!
In your first message
My booking form can help you write a message that includes all the information I need from you for us to meet. When writing me, always include:
- Your preferred name.
- When you're hoping to see me; supply both a preferred and an alternate date and time.
- How long you'd like to see me for. See my rates for helpful guidance in selecting a duration.
- Where you want to meet: my place/"incall," your place/"outcall," or indicate a social date/meet and greet. Look up my travel dates if you're not sure where I'll be.
- If this is our first contact, choose a screening or safety check method you're comfortable using. Screening is easy and mandatory.
Do's and don'ts
Here are some things to keep in mind when writing me. Please:
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include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form. |
write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me. |
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mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then. |
use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults. |
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acknowledge past communication when contacting me a subsequent time. If I ask you to send your deposit, screening info, or even to answer a basic logistical question like, "How does next Thursday at 6pm sound?" and you disappear only to return months later, acknowledge your prior fumble with an apology and a tip or gift off my wishlist. |
keep ghosting or dropping conversations. I understand when things come up or if plans must change. Show me the courtesy of telling me when this happens. Repeatedly disappearing only to reappear with a similarly non-commital vibe or the futile hope I won't remember you shows me you're more invested in me as a fantasy than a reality. |
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speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting. |
speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group. |
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be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults. |
under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is involved in any way. |
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reach out without fear of your gender, race, ethnicity, size, or religion. I respond best to respectful inquiries from individuals or couples who are fueled by my energy, are hungry for intimacy, or eager to shed lingering shames. |
start your introduction by telling me your race, ethnicity, or level of physical fitness. None of these characteristics determine whether or not I'll see you. I care about how you treat me, not what you look like. |
Explore the Good Client Guide for more communication tips and generally useful information.
Screening options ( What's screening?)
If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to attach safety screening info or pass one of my alternative safety check processes. (Why?)
I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.
To successfully screen, complete any one (1) of the following requirements:
- Screening method 1: attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid government-issued photo ID card/document showing at least your full name, birthyear, and photo (the rest may be redacted), plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
- Screening method 2: attaching a selfie plus a LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
- Screening alternative 1: scheduling a paid video vibe check, where we will video chat using Signal Private Messenger so you can provide the minimal information from your legal ID document for me to verify in real-time. I'll join the video chat after I receive your payment for the video call.
- Screening alternative 2: scheduling and sending a deposit for a meet-and-greet/social-only date (at my social rate) where we will physically meet in a public venue.
Messages that lack screening information may not receive a reply. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
