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When will you be in my city?

I’ll be there when you book me there. I won’t be when you don’t. To see me in your city, bring me to it.

I also tour, or make myself available for dates while away from my home cities. My public travel calendar will show you where I’m planning to be and when. You’re always welcome to incentivize a change to my plans.

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I only travel where I’m booked and want to go. If I’m coming to your city and you haven’t pre-booked a date with me, it either means someone else has booked me, I’m there for a personal reason, or both.

It’s okay if you’re not ready to commit to a longer or travel date with me. We can explore our desires and get to know each other:

Travel minimums

You can bring me to you by booking a date. As a general rule of thumb, with advanced scheduling, I'm passport-ready and available to travel:

  • by car to points within an hour's distance for bookings of 90 minutes or longer.
  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or longer.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or longer.
  • some international locales for overnights or extended stays.

Similar to outcalls, I can itemize travel expenses and will ask you to cover them up-front.

Meanwhile, you can subscribe to my newsletter or subscribe to my travel calendar in your Google Calendar. This way, you can get notifications of when I’ll be in a new city.

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Page last modified: Aug 17th, 2026.