Tour Destinations ( What’s a tour?)
As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly. My travel calendar is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be. Planning ahead is the best way to ensure I’ll make availability for you.
To see me in your city, bring me to it.

You can bring me to you by booking a date. As a general rule of thumb, with advanced scheduling, I'm passport-ready and available to travel:
- by car to points within an hour's distance for bookings of 90 minutes or longer.
- anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or longer.
- domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or longer.
- some international locales for overnights or extended stays.
Similar to outcalls, I can itemize travel expenses and will ask you to cover them up-front.
Availability ( “right now?”)
As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together. I'm discerning and selective, so while same-day sessions are possible, I always prioritize returning friends and longer bookings over short-notice quickies with new friends.

Incall Availability
I can host us in my home city at several private options near public transit lines, including…
- a luxury private condo
- a decadent, well-equipped dungeon
Showers () and easy parking () are available at all my incalls.
Outcall Availability
If you would like to host:
- Please add round-trip fare for car service (including 20% tip for drivers), in addition to my usual rate.
- When meeting one another for the first time, I may decline to see you at a personal residence. If that's what you had in mind, consider scheduling a curiosity call or video date with me beforehand.
Hotel arrangements
If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice) for an additional cost of the hotel reservation. I can itemize this charge, and it will be included in your deposit.
Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)
Short notice availability ( “u avail?”)
My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:
- lack of foreplanning may incur a rush fee to cover last-minute higher lodging or travel costs.
- new friends are still required to screen, which may take time, so I encourage you to get pre-screened if you often need this kind of spontaneous appointment.
Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.
Tours and Travel Locations
This calendar shows you where I'm already planning to be and when. You're always welcome to incentivize a change to my plans. (Click an event to view its details and confirmation status.)