💡 This is part of Violet Rollergirl’s Guide to Using Cryptocurrency (as a Sex Worker). If you haven’t yet read the primer, consider starting there!
At the end of the day, cryptocurrency is just currency. You can’t breathe it, you can’t eat it, you can’t drink it. It won’t provide companionship, fulfillment, inspiration, or joy. A number in a bank account, or a cryptocurrency wallet, won’t keep you alive. Sooner or later, you’re going to have to spend it on something.
The cryptocurrency world calls this “off-ramping,” the complement to “on-ramping.” In this case, it means turning your cryptocurrency assets into something else, whether digital or physical.
In the traditional financial system, spending money comes with a privacy trade-off: your bank, credit card company, or payment processor knows what you’re up to. Transparent (non-private) cryptocurrency systems suffer from the same problem, but worse, because everyone in the entire world can watch what you buy. This is one of the main safety benefits to using privacy coins: no one but you and the vendor you’re buying from knows what you’re up to.
The easiest way to off-ramp or spend your cryptocurrency is to just pay for the thing in the same privacy coin you already have. Of course, this requires the vendor to accept payments in that privacy coin, and that’s still rare.
It’s worth pointing out that, as sex workers, we are actually quite a skilled bunch. As I’m sure you know (and as I’ve said before), sex work requires myriad skills, and most sex workers are gig workers, which means you can support many of the sex workers you know even without buying hole or pole from us. I personally know colleagues who are editors, tailors, graphic designers, leather workers, bartenders, computer programmers, cooks, tutors, and nannies who also do sex work as a supplemental income.
Community’s always been important but it’ll become more so very rapidly. If the quality is there, I’d rather get my blouse sewn by a fellow sex worker I know or one who is recommended to me by a friend. And, guess what, if they’re willing to accept payment for that service in Zcash, I’ve got my perfect off-ramp right there!
So if you’re a sex worker with such skills, share that fact with friends you trust. Or maybe you’ve got a car, time, and need cash? Consider offering a Homobiles-style car service for your fellow workers and accept payments in ZEC or another privacy coin! Build a local economy, and stay surveillance-free by using Zcash to sustain it! The true revolutionary potential of this truly cannot be overstated.
One way to think about this is: Zcash in Zodl is to money what Signal Private Messenger is to speech. Vive la révolution!
Although Zcash is a superior private currency, most of the crypto world still relies on other surveillable systems, like Bitcoin.
In March of 2026, Square Inc., a popular point-of-sale system vendor, enabled their Bitcoin support for hundreds of thousands of small businesses by default. All of these businesses, including many brick-and-mortar stores, simultaneously began accepting Bitcoin payments through their Square POS.
Thankfully, cryptocurrencies can be easily converted from one to another so it’s easy to pay in a vendor’s cryptocurrency of choice even if you only keep a balance in Zcash. There are lots of ways to do this, but many are clunky and require you to be quite careful about exchange rates, conversion fees, and payment processing times.
By far the easiest method is Zodl’s “Crosspay” feature, so named because it makes “cross-chain, cross-currency payments” simple and safe. Let’s work through a common use case I have one step at a time and show Crosspay at work.
One very common need I have is to pay for my escort ads. Many escort directories and mall sites will accept payment in Bitcoin, but I’m aware of none who accept Zcash. (Obviously, if you know of one, please contact me to tell me about it!) This is where Crosspay shines.
Suppose you have some ZEC and you want to load up your Tryst TLC balance. Here’s what you can do.
💡 Remember that since you’re starting from holding ZEC in Zodl, it’s already shielded and private. This means no matter how you got it, the money we’re about to spend has no digital link back to your legal identity. This is a much better place to start than any other Bitcoin address.
First, log in to your Tryst account and access their “Add credits” screen.
15 or so.Make sure you indicate that you want to pay in Bitcoin. You’re actually going to be paying directly from your shielded Zcash, but Tryst will nevertheless receive Bitcoin anyway.
Review your purchase order for correctness and press the “Pay Now” button to reveal the Bitcoin pay window.
Click on the “Copy” tab to reveal just the Bitcoin address that Tryst wants you to send your payment to. It’ll look like the right screenshot in the image below.
Click on Zodl’s “Pay” button to open the Crosspay screen.
You’ll see a cryptocurrency selection drop-down menu for choosing the currency the payee wants to receive from us. Find Bitcoin (BTC) from the list of options; it will have a small Bitcoin logo on top of a larger, second, identical Bitcoin logo. This means we’re using our shielded ZEC, but paying in Bitcoin.
In the Address field, paste the Bitcoin payment address you copied from Tryst earlier.
Now choose how much to pay by entering an amount in either Bitcoin units or, if you have enabled Zodl’s currency conversion feature in its settings, in fiat units.
Click “Confirm” when you are ready to make your payment and send the transaction.
In my experience, it takes about 5 to 10 minutes for the transaction to complete, so make sure you also have at least that much time on the Tryst payment timer before you confirm your transaction, or you may not be able to get your account credited before your purchase order expires. If that does happen, you’ll have to speak with a support representative about crediting your account.
There’s a lot of sparkle-emoji technology sparkle-emoji happening here, but what’s extra cool about this is that at no point do you ever need a Bitcoin wallet! Moreover, no remnant of digital cruft exists anywhere in the various blockchains that can be meaningfully linked back to you. While the vendor you’re purchasing from may know who you are (and Tryst certainly does), they don’t know where your funds came from, and they don’t care.
Practically, this enables you to safely keep your cryptocurrency assets in the Zcash shielded pool, where they stay completely private, and still be able to pay any vendor who accepts any denomination of a supported cryptocurrency equally privately. If you do this, no one can know how rich (or poor) you really are. In contrast, if you keep your holdings in a transparent ledger system like Bitcoin, the whole world can tally your real net worth without ever asking you questions.
This is not a hypothetical example. This is in fact how I pay for my Tryst membership and other ads, as well as for the VoIP phone number I use for SMS inquiries. Consider trying it out for your next cryptocurrency payment, too.
Among the most common ways to spend your hard-earned cryptocurrency today is by piggybacking on the massive gift card economy for making various kinds of retail purchases. One thing that’s nice about this for us as sex workers in particular is that many of us are already very familiar with gift cards and similar store credit services. We may even have regular business expenses such as a prepaid mobile phone (eSIM) line or hotel bookings we need to make to run our business.
Since gift cards and store credit systems are already a certain kind of alternative digital local currency, cryptocurrency is a natural fit. As a result, an entire crypto gift card marketplace industry has emerged to support this particular kind of off-ramp. While different crypto-to-gift-card vendors support different currencies, Zodl’s built-in decentralized exchange solves that problem, so the main considerations for those of us who want to use this method to spend our cryptocurrency funds are:
I strongly suggest talking to your friends and colleagues about what services they like and feel safe using, and why. But if you’re just starting from scratch, read on to learn about my favorite vendors. Two of them conveniently, are built into the same self-custody wallets I’ve already recommended.
The gift card vendor directly integrated with the Zcash wallet app I use is called Flexa, which is basically a multi-store gift card manager mini-app inside the Zodl wallet app itself. If you’ve installed the mainstream version of Zodl (i.e., from the Google Play Store or the Apple App Store, but not from the F-Droid strictly free software app repository), you’ll have the option to spend your shielded ZEC at partnered Flexa brands from within your Zodl wallet.
As of this writing, some Flexa partners include Ulta Beauty and Kiehl’s (cosmetic and skincare product brands, useful for the obvious reasons), Sheetz (a convenience store and gas station chain, useful if you often drive yourself to outcalls), and Chipotle, which I guess is mostly noteworthy for personal reasons because one of my partners loves Mexican food, so I get to treat them here often. :)
First, set up Zodl to work with Flexa as privately as possible by enabling Zodl’s built-in Tor network privacy features. Once that’s set up do this to use Flexa from within Zodl:
I have successfully used Flexa this way and, while it’s currently limited to supported business partners, it is by far the easiest way to spend my ZEC on real, physical stuff.
If you need something from a store that doesn’t have a Flexa partnership, you can still maybe find it from another cryptocurrency to gift card vendor.
The gift card vendor directly integrated with the Monero wallet app I use is called Cake Pay. If you use their Web site instead of the in-app wallet integration, you can also use shielded Zcash to pay for the gift cards they offer.
TK-TODO: This section is not yet written, but it functions almost identically to Flexa in Zodl: sign up with a KYC-lite email address, either on the Cake Pay website or in the Cake Wallet app itself, and then choose a giftcard, pay for it from a Cake Wallet’s balance using Monero, since Monero is the one private cryptocurrency Cake Wallet supports, and then use the gift card as you normally would.
Note that as of this writing, Cake Pay is not compatible with Tor; you must disable Tor from within Cake Wallet’s settings to use Cake Pay.
When you’re using the gift card economy to spend your cryptocurrency, the first challenge is figuring out which service can get you a gift card from a brand you want to purchase from.
The cryptocurrency to gift card vendor I know most about is Bitrefill (referral link), because they’re one of the largest. Another popular one I use is Piggy.Cards (referral link).
Both Bitrefill and Piggy.Cards sells gift cards to a plethora of well-known brands by accepting cryptocurrency as payment for them. You can buy these even more privately by browsing the sites via Tor Browser. If or when you hit purchase limits, you can create a “basic account” with Bitrefill to get decently large spending limits ($10,000 USD per month). Signing up with any name and any working email you like will work fine. (I didn’t use a legal identity to sign up and have no trouble using the site.) If you want to give Bitrefill or Piggy.Cards a try, signing up with my referral links will also earn you (and me) additional discounts and initial spending money.
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Since there are so many purchases available at these sites, I’ve also compiled the below list to help you get a sense of what’s available and may be particularly useful for us as sex workers via this particular gift card off-ramping site.
You can also find gift cards for other common sex worker needs, including airline and hotel bookings, at gift card off-ramping sites like these. However, remember that the gift card economy is still actually part of the fiat economy. When possible, it’s best to avoid converting your cryptocurrency back to fiat currency, whether to avoid privacy incursions or simply due to the inconvenience. That’s where crypto-native services come in.
Instead of gift cards, which is really just a roundabout way to help fiat economy vendors accept cryptocurrency without actually accepting cryptocurrency payments, there are also a class of business-to-consumer (B2C) middlemen that will accept payments in cryptocurrency and either interface with vendors on your behalf or provide services paid for in crypto themselves.
When I’m on tour, I often need to buy airline tickets to travel or make hotel arrangements to coordinate an incall. This is where Travala (referral link) comes in clutch. It works like you’d expect any other flight and hotel booking platform to work, but you can pay directly in cryptocurrency. They also have a loyalty program, so you can earn extra rewards, and help me do the same if you sign up via my referral link.
Perhaps the fastest way to demonstrate how this service works is to just watch what happens at its payment screen.
Travala’s payment options includes direct cryptocurrency transfer with dozens upon dozens of different supported cryptocurrencies, including the popular ones. While Travala doesn’t support Zcash directly, remember you can still use Zodl’s decentralized off-ramp to pay in Bitcoin or whatever other cryptocurrency you like directly from your Zcash balance.
Here’s a screenshot of a reservation made on their site about to get paid in Bitcoin.
And here’s what happens when you press the “Complete Reservation” button.
Kinda looks like Tryst’s payment screen, doesn’t it?
You can also buy airline tickets on Travala this same way. Another site where you can buy airline tickets is AlternativeAirlines.com, which accepts Zcash directly.
Earlier, I showed you how to off-ramp using the gift card economy, which is one way you can buy prepaid phone and data plans. However, there are also some phone service providers that will accept payment directly in crypto.
Phone services are particularly problematic for sex workers because so many service providers outright ban us, much like finance apps do. Making calls and sending texts are also wildly insecure. For these reasons and more, we really ought to push clients to use more discreet messaging apps when communicating with us.
However, phone service is nevertheless often needed at least to bootstrap a business, and so I included this section here specifically for those scenarios. Once you have a phone number, though, I strongly recommend switching entirely to secured messaging apps, like Signal Private Messenger, especially for client correspondence.
Here’s my short list of recommended phone service providers. All of them accept cryptocurrency payments.
Please contact me to let me know if you found any more quality (VoIP or non-VoIP) phone providers that accept crypto payments!
Another common service many of us have need for is a reliable VPN. I have many thoughts on the topic of private network technologies, which can mostly be summed up by preference for using Tor over a VPN. That said, if you’re going to use a VPN, you should probably stick to a reputable one that you can pay for privately, in cryptocurrency.
Here are my favorite options for that:
For providers with more technical skill, running our own Web site or other Internet communications infrastructure can be a big win because it provides business continuity, disaster recovery, and other reliability planning benefits. ServerHunter.com is a site that lets you browse many dozens of thousands of offerings and filter them for which cloud hosting, dedicated server, or virtual private server (VPS) companies will accept Bitcoin or “altcoin” (cryptocurrency) payments.
Find crypto-friendly server hosts
Much like employers pay vendors to perform background checks on individuals before granting those people access to their systems, one widespread industry norm for providers who meet with clients in person is to assess their safety through screening procedures before we grant those clients access to our bodies.
(Yes, I require each new client to screen in some way, although I offer a few alternative screening methods.)
While some providers do these checks ourselves, there are also specialized services that can perform such screenings for us. Here are ones that I can recommend and that will accept cryptocurrency as payment:
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Always remember that Bitcoin payments are never anonymous so, for your protection, I recommend paying using Zodl’s Crosspay feature, same as you would pay for your Tryst ad.
There are new business, vendors, merchants, and service providers who are starting to accept shielded ZEC as payments alongside credit/debit cards and other electronic payment systems. Many of them are also beginning to list themselves in a global directory of Zcash-accepting businesses called ZECMap. These include brick-and-mortar shops along with online stores.
If you don’t need the more complete privacy guarantees of off-ramps available via KYC-lite options such as gift cards, you can also apply for (and hopefully receive) a refillable, cryptocurrency-backed, payment card with a major traditional card issuer.
Since these are the equivalent of physical credit cards, you will have to upload your legal identity documents during the application process, meaning this off-ramp only provides partial privacy. Still, its convenience may be useful for workers who only need privacy from individual clients, rather than also from corporate or government institutions, or who simply need an off-ramp to spend their more private cryptocurrency earnings.
The biggest advantage of these cards is:
By on-ramping directly in crypto and then funding a payment card like this, you simply don’t need to deposit your earnings into a bank account before you can fund the balance of your crypto-backed payment card.
Payy (referral link) is a self-custodial, privacy-centered cryptocurrency wallet and payment gateway able to interface with Visa’s payment processing network. This makes Payy two things at the same time:
What’s appealing about Payy is that you can fund your Payy Card’s balance using either fiat currencies, such as from traditional bank accounts, or cryptocurrency sources, such as other crypto wallets or exchanges, by converting whatever cryptocurrency you have into USDC on Polygon (the same currency that MintPay lets you withdraw). This makes it feasible for de-banked individuals to buy things the way most of the banked population does, without needing to get a bank account, which is no small feat.
It’s important to remember that payments you make using a Payy Card are associated with your legal identity. From that perspective, it’s not more private than a regular credit card. However, it is a lot more private than just using Bitcoin, Ethereum, or other transparent-ledger cryptocurrency systems directly, because your payments aren’t published publicly for the entire Internet to see.
Payy itself communicates what data is public and what data stays private when you sign up for a Payy Card. Here’s the infographic I was shown when I applied for my Payy Card:
I would not recommend using your Payy Card or the Payy network for your sex worker needs if you can avoid it; do your best to stick with Zcash and Monero for that. However, if your friends are unwilling to adopt the stronger privacy protections offered by Zcash in Zodl, are scared of the volatility of actual privacy coins, or have otherwise succumbed to the propaganda that stablecoins are somehow superior (even though we know they’re not), Payy can be a convincing half-step to at least get them using cryptocurrency with you.
Your Payy Card can make you look more like a “normal” civilian in your personal life. And you can still keep your wealth private by having it in and moving it through the Zcash shielded pool (i.e., Zodl) at every opportunity.
If you’d like to try Payy, using my invitation link will net me “Payy Points,” which act a bit like a credit card loyalty program:
Payy is also the same company that underpins the MintStars Creator Card.
So far, the cryptocurrency off-ramping options I’ve described largely avoid unnecessary interaction with the fiat economy. Turning away from traditional financial and governmental systems is becoming increasingly important. However, it can also brand us illegitimate to individuals or institutions who do interact with that world and who, for whatever reason, we are also forced to interact with.
Unfortunately, lacking traditional legitimacy often means lacking important safety nets that come with traditional employment, like medical/health insurance and retirement plan benefits. It also means struggling to show proof of income in many situations where we still need it, such as taking out a fiat loan or renting from a landlord. Crucially, we as sex workers are not alone in this frustration! While stigma against sex work puts up even more obstacles for us in these situations, on paper at least these challenges are similar to those faced by freelancers more generally.
Let me be absolutely clear: I firmly believe the current system is unredeemable. As the fiat world continues failing to provide many of us our most basic needs, alternatives will be urgent sooner rather than later. On a personal level, I don’t even care why this empire is crumbling; whether my government failed me out of malice or whether it failed me because it’s incompetent is not something I have the luxury of thoroughly investigating. I just need a solution, and I need it yesterday.
One novel angle from which to attack this problem comes in the form of digital employment cooperatives, sometimes also called a freelancer’s union (not to be confused with The Freelancer’s Union). If you can join these institutions, they offer a way to legitimize your income, whether fiat or cryptocurrency. This means you get some of the benefits of traditional employment while retaining the freedom of being an independent worker.
Despite not being suitable for or available to everyone, this kind of thing is still worth knowing about. So, let’s look at one such off-ramp next.
Opolis (referral link) is a novel digital employment cooperative you may be able to join (if you meet minimum income or eligibility requirements based on your needs, see below) that can offer a way to legitimize your income, including any earnings from cryptocurrency transactions. With Opolis, rather than work “under the table,” you set things up like a traditional business, funnel your earnings through that business, and then pay yourself back as a salaried employee.
After reading this, if you want to join Opolis, you can help me by joining via my referral link:
In plain language, the whole setup works like this.
Yes, this tactic introduces complexity to your work. It means you have to go through the process of registering a business, like picking a name and choosing which State is best for you to register your business in. But the rubber meets the road when on-ramping same as it did before, if not even better.
Now that you’re earning revenue on behalf of your business, you’ll need to record those funds in some accounting software. (I prefer to use GnuCash for this, but I’ve also heard good things about Rotki.) This way, you can treat it as your business’s taxable income for reporting when your business pays member dues in the cryptocurrencies Opolis supports. Yes, it also means you’re now going to pay taxes; that’s the cost of fiat legitimacy.
As a trans sex worker, my main motivation for looking into this option is my need for safe and reliable HRT medicine (it’s expensive to be trans in America). Unfortunately, Opolis has minimum income requirements that puts it out of my reach, at least for now. But when (not if 🙏🏻) I eventually make enough to meaningfully benefit from further professionalizing my independent business this way, this business cooperative approach seems like a good one.
A few other points to know about this off-ramp:
I’d love to hear about your experience if you try something like this so please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you do!
I need to write this up, too. Basically it’s just going back to an exchange where you are okay KYC’ing to your fiat identity.
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| include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form. | write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me. |
| mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then. | use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults. |
| speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting. | speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group. |
| be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults. | under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is in any way involved. |
Please do reach out without fear of your gender, race, ethnicity, size, or religion. I respond best to respectful inquiries from individuals or couples who are fueled by my energy, are hungry for intimacy, or eager to shed lingering shames.
Explore the Good Client Guide or the Satisfaction Project for more communication tips and generally useful information.
If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to attach safety screening info or pass one of my alternative safety check processes. (Why?)
I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.
To successfully screen, complete any one (1) of the following requirements:
Messages that lack screening information may not receive a reply. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly. My travel calendar is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be. Planning ahead is the best way to ensure I’ll make availability for you.
You can bring me to you by booking a date. As a general rule of thumb, with advanced scheduling, I'm passport-ready and available to travel:
Similar to outcalls, I can itemize travel expenses and will ask you to cover them up-front.
As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together. I'm discerning and selective, so while same-day sessions are possible, I always prioritize returning friends and longer bookings over short-notice quickies with new friends.
I can host us in my home cities…
Showers () and easy parking () are available at all my incalls in both cities.
If you would like to host:
If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice) for an additional cost of the hotel reservation. I can itemize this charge, and it will be included in your deposit.
Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)
My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:
Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.
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