Violet Rollergirl’s Booking Guide

Many people are attracted to trans women like me, but few get the chance to get intimate with us. One of my favorite things about being a trans provider is sharing in that moment of discovery with you, and relishing the joy, relief, and opening of possibility that comes with it.

To experience that, of course, you must first book me.

The booking process can feel daunting, especially if you’re “new to all this,” but it really just boils down to being communicative. The more information you give me about your situation, the more likely I will be able to align some stars for us.

About this guide

I wrote this page to help those of you who want a meticulously crafted step-by-step guide to walk through booking time with me. It explains how to start and what to do at every step of the way. Its extraordinary detail may be overkill for many of you, but provides a thorough reference regardless.

The point of this is not not to ensure perfection, but rather to give you clarity during the process should you seek it. While this guide is specific to booking me, you’ll probably find it useful for booking any companion, as most of what I ask for is standard across the industry.

Table of contents

  1. Who should read this page
  2. Start here: once you know you want to meet me
  3. Fill in my mad-lib style booking form
    1. Booking form field: your name
    2. Booking form field: screening method
    3. Booking form field: phone number
    4. Booking form field: preferred contact method
    5. Booking form field: source referral
    6. Booking form field: free-form notes
    7. Booking form field: booking type
    8. Booking form field: service type
    9. Booking form field: duration
    10. Booking form field: location
    11. Booking form field: preferred date and time
    12. Booking form field: alternate date and time
    13. Booking form field: confirm policy agreement
    14. Booking form field: confirm screening attachment
  4. Submit my booking form to send your inquiry
    1. Review and confirm your inquiry is as you desire
    2. Attach your screening information to the templated message
    3. Send your inquiry via your chosen app
  5. Patiently wait for my reply
    1. If you don’t receive a reply
  6. Confirm date details by sending a deposit
    1. About extensive or synchronous correspondence
  7. Enjoy the building anticipation of our upcoming date
    1. The day before our date
    2. If you need to reschedule or cancel
  8. Show up

Who should read this page

This page is for:

  • clients who already know they want to meet or speak with me privately.
  • clients looking for absolute clarity on how to book me.

If you aren’t yet sure whether I’m the girl for you, then you might want to have a look at the rest of my site before returning here. My gallery shows you what I look like. (Yes, I really do look like that.) My “tech specs” (about page) describe my vitals and my vibe. My FAQ has the answers to numerous questions about me and my offerings. My rates page provides a breakdown of considerations for my offerings. And my tours and availability page gives you details about where I’m traveling and when, along with some detail about how to bring me to your city for a special date. You can also learn about me from my prolific social media posts and my softcore (and hardcore) content.

And if you’re still not sure? You can schedule a brief introductory call with me, the cost of which can be directly applied to your deposit if you choose to book. For that, however, you’ll need to schedule some time with me. This page can help you with that!

This page is not for:

  • clients who are looking for information on how to research escorts generally.
  • clients who need advice on general booking etiquette.
  • clients who are looking for proof of my legitimacy or need help avoiding scams.
  • clients who want assurance that I want to meet them. (The answer is always yes, I absolutely do want to meet you.)

If the above describes you, I recommend the following blog posts on the Tryst Blog instead of this page:

I also suggest spending a bit of time perusing the Good Client Guide, a companion website that has compiled much of the same information.

Start here: once you know you want to meet me

Everyone I meet begins at my booking form. Additionally, my booking form offers some rather novel privacy-preserving features that you may find valuable if you need extra levels of discretion, so it behooves you to use it.

To be clear:

  • If you found me through my ads or reviews on other sites, I’m going to ask you to fill in my booking form.
  • If we are already communicating some other way, I’m going to ask you to fill in my booking form when it comes time to schedule a specific date.
  • If you’re not sure whether we can meet at a given time or place, use my booking form to find out.
  • If you don’t know exactly when you want to meet, use my booking form to suggest some options.
  • If you want to know when I’m available, I’ll direct you to my calendar and then I’ll ask you to fill in my booking form.
  • If you’re not sure whether or not I offer a service you want and need to speak with me about that, use my booking form to start the conversation about it.
  • If all you want to do is have a short introductory call, use my booking form to schedule time for it with me.
  • If you merely want to see me for a quick visit such as for a half hour appointment, I will still ask you to fill in my booking form.
  • If you try to get my attention in any way in order to spend some time with you privately, but you didn’t use my booking form to do it, I’ll ask you to fill in my booking form.

At this point I hope it’s clear that there is no way around using my booking form. Quite simply, my booking form is there to make the booking process easier and faster for both of us. It reduces the need for back-and-forth messages by making sure all the information I need to start setting up a meeting with you is present and available.

Filling out my booking form is a bare minimum show of good faith you must complete that proves you’re as serious about meeting me as making the form in the first place proves to you that I’m excited to meet you.

Fill in my mad-lib style booking form

In case it wasn’t obvious yet, you have to fill in my booking form in order to spend time with me. :)

My booking form is styled as a mad lib game that you fill out. Remember mad libs? They are those fun little story templates that have blank spots asking you to choose parts of speech like adjectives or verbs. By the end, you create a cute story or poem or something. My booking form works the same way.

In place of a string of underscores, there’s a form field, such as a text box or drop-down menu. Each field has a bit of placeholder text that explains what’s expected there. For example, the first field is a text input box whose placeholder text reads, “Write your name here.” So, if your name is Joe Smith, you would write, Joe Smith into that box.

When you fill in the field, it turns from red to neutral-toned, indicating that you’ve entered your information in a way I’ll accept. Next, do the same with all the other fields.

Remember:

  • If you don’t know what to put into a field, it’s okay to guess or be vague. The booking form is for starting your booking process, not ending it.
  • If you aren’t willing to provide some of the information my form asks for, then you aren’t ready to meet. Wait until you are ready and willing to provide that information before continuing. It’s okay to not be ready. I’ll (probably?) wait for you, too.
  • If you don’t know where I’ll be or where you’ll be or when you want to meet, you need to at least make a best-effort guess to start the conversation with me. If you can’t do that, you may just need to shore up your own itinerary before contacting me. I promise I’m more flexible than you and I want to make a meeting work out, but it takes two to tango.

For your reference, here is a detailed breakdown of what I expect in each and every field of the form.

Booking form field: your name

The first field in my booking form is a text box for your name.

  • The field’s label is:
    • My name is
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Write your name here
  • You are expected to write your full name here. For example, Joe Smith.

You may not leave this field blank, because I need to know how to address you.

Booking form field: screening method

The second field of my booking form is a drop-down menu for choosing the method you would like to use for screening.

  • The field’s label is:
  • The field’s placeholder reads: How you'll screen
  • You are expected to choose one from the following options:
    • Choose my legal ID document if you will send a selfie of yourself holding a driver’s license or other government-issued photo ID document.
    • Choose employment information if you will send a link to your LinkedIn profile and are willing to verify your employment information via discreet email confirmation loop.
    • Choose a deposit for a social date at a public venue if you will send a deposit to confirm a reservation with me in person at a public venue for a platonic date, sometimes also called a “meet and greet.”

You may not leave this field blank. If you have already screened with me, simply re-use the same value you chose earlier.

I very rarely require re-screening; it’s required if you change numbers or contact me through a channel we’ve previously not used, so that I can re-verify your contact information and confirm that I’m speaking with the person I expect to be speaking with. You may also need to re-screen if it’s been a very long time since our last correspondence (like a year or so).

For more information about screening, see my FAQ: Why must I screen?/Screening makes me nervous..

Booking form field: phone number

The third field in my booking form is a text box for entering your carrier (non-burner) phone number. Every screening method requires this information.

  • The field’s label is:
    • My carrier phone number (for your screening purposes only) is
  • The field’s placeholder reads: +1-555-123-4567
  • You are expected to enter the phone number associated with the phone you use with a major telecoms carrier.
    • I will not use this number to contact you unless you contact me from this number, first.
    • While you may contact me from any number you wish, the number you enter here must be a carrier number, not one from a burner or texting app.
    • To further clarify, this number should be associated with the name you entered in the “Your name” field.

You may not leave this field blank. I require it for each and every new friend who wants to book, regardless of which screening method you choose.

For more information about screening, see my FAQ: How do I pass your screening process?.

Booking form field: preferred contact method

The fourth field in my booking form is a drop-down menu for you to choose how you’d like to contact me.

  • The field’s label is:
    • I prefer that we communicate using
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Your preferred contact method
  • You are expected to choose one from the following options:
    • Choose Signal Private Messenger if you’d like the booking form to send your message to my Signal Private Messenger account.
      • This is my preferred contact method, so you’ll definitely earn some bonus points for messaging me this way!
      • You will need the Signal app installed on the device you are filling out the form from.
    • Choose WhatsApp if you’d like the booking form to send your message to my WhatsApp Business account.
      • You will need the WhatsApp app installed on the device you are filling out the form from.
    • Choose email if you’d like the booking form to send an email to my ProtonMail address ([email protected]).
      • You will need to have an email client or a webmail site installed on or registered with the device you are filling out the form from.
    • Choose SMS/text message if you’d like the booking form to send your message to my own plain text messaging number. You will need to have an SMS/text messaging app installed on the device you are filling out the form from.
      • You probably don’t want to use this option if you are filling in my form from a laptop. (Consider email instead.)
      • Even from a phone, this option is not always reliable, and a warning to this effect will show up on the booking form when you select this option.

You may not leave this field blank, because I can’t reply to you if you do.

This field also determines how I’ll respond to your inquiry. For example, if you chose email, I’ll reply from my email to the email address from which you messaged me. If you chose Signal, I’ll reply via Signal to the Signal account from which you messaged me, etcetera.

Booking form field: source referral

The fifth field in my booking form is a text suggestion box for you to let me know how you first learned about me.

  • The field’s label is:
    • I found your Web site via
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Where you found me
  • You are expected to write a brief description of where you first encountered me.
    • You can write anything you like, but in some Web browsers a list of suggestions will appear as you start typing.
    • You can choose one of these suggestions, or write some other free-form entry.

You may not leave this field blank, but what you enter here has no bearing on the rest of your inquiry and does not affect your booking in any way.

Booking form field: free-form notes

The sixth field in my booking form is a multi-line text area where you can write anything you like, including nothing at all, that gives me more information about why you think we’d have fun together.

  • The field’s label is:
    • I like your…
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Photos? Vibe? Use a professional tone. Avoid vulgar language.
  • You are expected to write a brief description of why you want to see me and/or share any information about yourself that you think is relevant for our date.

You may leave this field blank if you like, but this is your chance to make a unique first impression, so I encourage you to make the most of it.

Booking form field: booking type

The seventh field in my booking form is a drop down menu for you to choose the category of booking we’ll need to coordinate.

  • The field’s label is:
    • May I reserve your time for
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Choose booking type
  • You are expected to choose one from the following options:
    • Choose an incall (provider hosts) if you’d like to visit me at one of my incall spaces or have me make hotel arrangements for us.
    • Choose an outcall (client hosts) if you’d like me to visit you at a hotel room, residence, or other venue you will arrange yourself.
    • Choose a FMTY (travel with or to you) if you’d like me to travel to a destination outside of my posted tours or home cities.
      • This is the option you want if you need to meet me in a place I don’t normally go, or don’t currently have any plans to visit.
    • Choose a social date (platonic/screening only) if you just want to meet for a vibe check, to test our compatibility in person, or if you want to screen by meeting in person.
      • This is not a free meeting; deposit and cancellation policies will apply as normal at my social-only rate.
    • Choose a virtual video date (online) to reserve my time for a (possibly rather steamy) video call.
    • Choose a texting/sexting session (online) to reserve my time and attention for us to engage in some luxurious literary libations together.
    • Choose an introductory call (phone) to schedule an introductory call at a time that’s convenient for us both.

You may not leave this field blank. I need to know what you’re hoping to book my time for so that we can plan accordingly.

Booking form field: service type

The eigth field in my booking form is a drop down menu for you to choose the service you’re expecting of me during the booking.

  • The field’s label is:
    • for your
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Choose service type
  • You are expected to choose one from the following options:
    • Choose GFE/vanilla services for almost all needs, including platonic, intimate companionship, and any other form of attention except specific fetishes.
    • Choose pro-sub/BDSM services to prepare me for entertaining specific kinks and fetishes, power play, or specialized roleplay scenarios.

You may not leave this field blank. It’s okay if you’re not sure which of these options to choose, we can talk about it at some detail once you complete screening.

Booking form field: duration

The ninth field in my booking form is a numeric input box for you to choose the length of time you’d like to spend with me.

  • The field’s label is:
    • for a duration of
  • The field’s placeholder reads: #
  • You are expected to enter a number or decimal value, such as 1 for one hour, or 2.5 for two and a half hours.

You may not leave this field blank. If your Web browser supports it, you can use the arrow keys on your keyboard to increase or decrease the number in steps of 0.5, indicating a half hour (30 minutes). Note that I prioritize longer bookings with more notice over shorter appointments requested last minute.

Booking form field: location

The tenth field in my booking form is a text suggestion box for you to fill in the name of the place where you’d like to meet me.

  • The field’s label is:
    • when I will be in
  • The field’s placeholder reads: Anytown, USA (City, Country)
  • You are expected to enter the name of a city, a neighborhood, or just enter “an online/remote location” or something to that effect to indicate that the service you want can be fulfilled without physically meeting.
    • Cities that I service regularly will be available as suggestions in browsers that support this feature.
    • When I’m touring, you also may find those cities listed here, too.
    • Even if you don’t see your city in this list, you can propose to meet anywhere you know you’ll be and I’ll try to align some stars for us.

You may not leave this field blank for bookings that require us to meet in person for what I hope are obvious reasons. I may ignore this field entirely if your inquiry is for a booking type that requests online, virtual, or remote services, but you still need to write something here, such as “online” to indicate this.

Booking form field: preferred date and time

The eleventh field in my booking form is a date and time entry widget for you to fill in a precise date and time that you most prefer to meet.

  • The field’s label is:
    • on
  • The field’s default value is a date and time in the past.
  • You are expected to enter a date and time in the future.
    • You can enter any time you are available, but remember that planning our date in advance will give us the best experience together.
    • The more notice you give me, the more time we have to build anticipation and set up a lovely time together.
    • Especially short notice bookings (less than 24 hours) may incur a rush fee.

You may not leave this field blank because all bookings must be performed at some time, and I need to know when you’re availale to spend that time with me.

Booking form field: alternate date and time

The twelfth field in my booking form is a date and time entry widget for you to fill in a precise date and time that you can also meet if your first choice is not one we can make work together.

  • The field’s label is:
    • or, alternatively, on
  • The field’s default value is a date and time in the past.
  • You are expected to enter a date and time in the future.
    • You can enter any time you are available, but remember that planning our date in advance will give us the best experience together.
    • You probably shouldn’t enter the same date and time as the first one, because that defeats the point of providing alternatives.
    • The more notice you give me, the more time we have to build anticipation and set up a lovely time together.
    • Especially short notice bookings (less than 24 hours) may incur a rush fee.

You may not leave this field blank because all bookings must be performed at some time, and I need to know when you’re availale to spend that time with me. By providing an alternative option as a backup to the first option, you help reduce the amount of back-and-forth we need to schedule something in case the first time doesn’t work.

Booking form field: confirm policy agreement

The thirteenth field in my booking form is a checkbox that you must check to confirm that you have read and agree to my published policies.

  • The field’s label is:
    • Yes, I have read, understood, and fully agree to abide by the information on your Web site, including your rates, policies, and availability.
  • The field’s default value is unchecked.
  • You are expected to check the box.

You must check this box to submit my booking form and continue to the next step. By checking this box, you acknowledge that you have read and understood and fully agree to abide by the information stated on my website. I know there’s a lot of information on my site. Yes, I do expect you to read all of it before booking me.

Booking form field: confirm screening attachment

The fourteenth field in my booking form is a checkbox that you must check to confirm that you agree to send screening information if you have elected to use a remote screening option.

  • The field’s label is:
    • Yes, I will attach all relevant screening information. I understand that incomplete inquiries, such as those without screening information, may not receive a reply.
  • The field’s default value is unchecked.
  • You are expected to check the box.

You must check this box to submit my booking form and continue to the next step. By checking this box, you acknowledge that you will go through my lightweight screening process. Note that nowhere did you actually provide the screening information yet. This means if you do not provide the screening information in the next step, your inquiry will likely not receive a reply.

Submit my booking form to send your inquiry

Once you think you’ve completed filling in all the fields in the form, you can press the buttons at the bottom to submit it. There are two buttons, numbered 1 and 2.

  1. Click or tap the first button, which reads “Copy inquiry to clipboard”. The text of the button will change to “Copied! (Click to copy again.)”
    • Pressing this button reads your entries in my booking form and places a copy of its text in your device’s clipboard.
  2. If the second button reads “Check form fields,” it means you omitted a required field, or entered information I won’t accept, such as a date or time in the past. Otherwise, the button will read “Send inquiry.” Click or tap this second button to continue.
    • If the button still said “Check form fields” when you pressed it, you’ll be refocused on the first form field whose value needs correction.
    • If the button read, “Send inquiry,” pressing it will progress you to the next step.

When you press the Send inquiry button, your chosen communication method (email, Signal, WhatsApp, etcetera) will activate. Your browser might also show you a dialogue box informing you that another app will open to handle this action, so click Ok to open that other app.

Review and confirm your inquiry is as you desire

After you fill all the fields in my booking form and press the Send inquiry button on my booking form, the corresponding app for the contact method you chose earlier will open directly to a conversation thead or draft message with all the information you entered in my booking form written out for you. The exception to this is if you chose Signal Private Messenger. In this case, use the clip/pasteboard feature (such as by pressing Control-V on your keyboard), to paste the form’s message into the Signal conversation that was opened with me.

Now’s a good time to review your inquiry to me before you commit to sending it. My booking form composed what I consider an ideal initial inquiry for you. (In fact, if you ask around, I’m sure many other providers will largely agree that they’d find it hot to get a first message written like this, too!) Make sure it says what you want, and that you entered the information you intended to.

Since the message you’re about to send is just text, you can also extend any part of the inquiry by simply editing the drafted message at this point. Please feel free to get as creative as you like, but keep the tone professional and don’t start asking highly explicit questions or using overtly sexualized language. Save that for after you screen.

Attach your screening information to the templated message

The only thing missing from your message now is your screening information, which you’ll need to send me if you’ve never screened with me before and are inquiring about anything other than a social meet-and-greet.

My booking form is designed to carefully protect your privacy at this early stage, which is why you’re expected to directly attach it to this pre-written message rather than via the Web form. Regardless of which app you’re now using to contact me (Signal, WhatsApp, email, or txt message), you have the option of attaching or sending images to screen yourself with:

Make sure the screening photo you attach is clear, recent, and is high-quality enough to be read clearly. Sometimes, SMS/text messages downgrade the quality of photos, so be prepared to re-send it if I ask you to, possibly through a different communication channel. Once again, Signal Private Messenger is the most private and most reliable communiation mechanism. Please consider using it if you aren’t already.

Send your inquiry via your chosen app

Once you have attached your screening information to the pre-drafted message, Send the message!

Voila! You’ve sent your inquiry. Take a break from the screen, put your phone down, enjoy a walk, go to the gym, or just enjoy the building anticipation of knowing that I’m going to squee with pleasure when I see it!

Patiently wait for my reply

Please be patient awaiting my reply. Under normal circumstances, it can take me up to a day or two to reply to even the most tempting inquiries. If I’m currently traveling, it can take even longer. I can promise you that well-crafted inquiries, such as those composed by my booking form, are all but guanrateed to receive an excited reply in short order!

At this point, we’re in contact, and the goal is simply to work out any remaining details.

My reply will:

  • reiterate my understanding of your expectations and desires, so that we’re both on the same page.
  • propose that we act on one of the two date and time options you initially suggested.
  • maybe ask for follow-up information, such as any further screening information or logisitcal details, if necessary.
  • probably contain a lot of happy words and a fair number of heart emojis.

If you don’t receive a reply

If you don’t receive a reply from me, it can be because of any of the following reasons:

  • You omitted screening information.
  • You requested a session on very short notice, or for the same day.
    • While I can sometimes accomodate a same-day appointment, this is rare and I may not reply if I can’t.
    • You are still expected to screen, even for same-day requests.
  • You used sexually explicit language somewhere in your inquiry.
  • Your email was filtered to my spam folder. I do check my spam folder, but I maintain an extremely strict spam filter that will flag your message if:
    • your email address looks like a bot’s.
    • your email was recently created.
    • your email was sent from an anonymous mailing service.
    • you attached a file type other than a single-frame image (JPEG, PNG, or non-animated WEBP). Any email with other types of attachments will get deleted instantly. (Attaching OpenPGP keys is also acceptable.)
  • You used txt/SMS, especially from a burner, texting app, or VoIP number.
    • It’s okay to communicate with me from these apps, but they are extremely unreliable and I may not have received it.
    • Consider just using Signal Private Messenger on your burner phone, insead.

Confirm date details by sending a deposit

When you receive my reply, read it closely!

In the simplest case, I’ll confirm my understanding of your expectations, pick one of the two date and time options you suggested in your initial inquiry, and supply you with instructions for how to send your deposit for our session. Sending your deposit is what holds your appointment in my calendar, so send it promptly to reserve our time together.

For more information, see my deposit policy.

About extensive or synchronous correspondence

It rarely takes more than three to five messages to inquire, confirm, and realize a date.

  1. Message one: you send your complete inquiry with screening information.
  2. Message two: I reply with a confirmation of your expectations, date details including the chosen date/time from your suggested options, and instructions for sending your deposit.
  3. Message three: you confirm these details and send your deposit to reserve time in my calendar.

Real life is often messier, and it’s possible that I’ll need to ask you about, say, food allergies or preferences if we’re going out, or clarify something in your inquiry. There is no strict limit to how many messages we’ll exchange, but you’ll undoubtedly notice my attention to detail and thoroughness in each and every one that I send. My goal is to handle logistics quickly so that we can get on to the really fun stuff equally quickly!

If we find ourselves unable to plan for and set a specific date, time, or place for your appointment in more than five back-and-forth messages, it may mean you aren’t quite ready to book, and I’ll probably suggest you send a new inquiry when you are. It’s no big deal, I just need to move on to other inquiries.

Otherwise, if you feel like you need more correspondence or a real-time conversation to iron out logistics, test our chemistry, or communicate and set expectations, you can:

  • schedule an introductory call so we can get on the phone and talk things out or settle any pre-date nerves.
  • demonstrate good etiquette by sending me a tip or buying me a gift off my wishlist as a show of good faith recognition for the additional planning time.

Enjoy the building anticipation of our upcoming date

Anticipation is an often overlooked part of foreplay, so this is frequently more fun than you may at first think! Once we’ve worked out the details, you can simply enjoy the building anticipation of our time together.

The day before our date

On the day before our date, I’ll send you a reminder message. The reminder will re-confirm all the details we’ve already worked out (date, time, duration, and so on).

In this reminder message, I’ll also provide more specific instructions for exactly how to meet, including things like where to park if you’re driving, which intersection to meet at, a specific address with instructions on how to use the buzzer, and so on.

If you haven’t met a companion before, this part can feel a bit like spycraft, but don’t worry. That’s just pre-date jitters and butterflies. Once we see one another, everything will start to feel much more comfortable!

If you need to reschedule or cancel

As the time for our date comes closer, it’s important that you stay in touch with me if plans need to change. Rescheduling is perfectly acceptable, and normal, but you need to communicate this to me so we can make other arrangements without stressing.

For more information, see my cancellation policy.

Show up

This step is the most fun: show up, and let me take care of the rest. ;)

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Page last modified: 30 August 2025.

Hello, friend! I'm Violet.

Your bubbly, outgoing trans GFE and (optionally) kinky companion. Let’s get acquainted!

Violet Rollergirl

Also known as “the girl with the QR code tattoo,” I'm Vi, a bubbly, outgoing, and adventurous trans girlfriend experience with an optional kinky, submissive twist.

Confident and kind, a little kittenish, and always curious in the most exciting ways, I’m equal parts whip-smart and whipping girl, fit and athletic, with soft hair in curly red ringlets and a natural aesthetic that can be hard femme, curious kitten, sexy librarian, cyberpunk hentai seductress, or a fantasy somewhere in between.

I host at convenient and well-equipped private incall spaces in and around NYC 🗽 and Boston. 🏙️

While my candy coating comes in a couple flavors that help me seamlessly shape shift between a fun loving hippie at rave festival campgrounds to a smirking pool shark bending over the billiards table, on the inside I love nothing more than being your good girl, a shameless and free-spirited companion with whom it's easy to relax. Play your cards right and I would thoroughly enjoy being your:

  • sweet trans kitten,
  • cyberpunk hentai succubus,
  • eager bondage bunny,
  • slutty degenerate girlfriend,
  • sporty skater chic, or
  • obedient good girl.

I'm often rollerblading when in the city, or hiking when in the woods. In Jewish grade school I was that soft spoken, nerdy, bookish student reading STEM texts and sci-fi stories (one of my favorite genres). I'm drawn to the intimacy of sharing time together while gazing at skyline views from rooftop lounges just as much as to the thrill of making out in dark corners of the club, or even through the bars of a dungeon cage.

For sweeter cravings, I offer an oasis full of affection, connection, and intimate moments that will make you feel absolutely adored. Let's go to a beach and listen to the waves, get in cold water and then make each other hot, or sail into a sunset like lovers in a movie! Let's cuddle on a balcony and watch a cityscape sparkle in the sky, or go to a comedy show to laugh and get just this side of inappropriately drunk together. I love a fancy cocktail and white tablecloth dinner but I'll smile just as much at a dive bar bending over a pool table and making bets on trick shots, snuggling in the back of a movie theater, or goofing off in the kitchen, eating dinner by lady-and-the-tramp'ing our way through a home-cooked meal before enjoying bedroom desserts.

For spicier desires, I relish being a very, very good girl, the kind that daddy (or mommy) can spank to make me better! If you're new to taking charge, I can tease out the dominance from you. It's a particular specialty of mine; I want to hear all about your kinks! I enjoy a very wide range of fetishes.

I'm the girl who purrs appreciately when she's pet, yet also cheerfully turns naughty when given the right commands. Are you ready for me to be your shape shifting vixen and compassionate companion?

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Tech specs

Height 5 feet, 7 inches (169cm)
Body type Athletic, toned
Cup size Natural B
Sexual orientation Enthusiastically bisexual
Tattoos One (learn more)
Piercings Ears, nipples
Languages
  • Fluent: English, JavaScript, Shell 👩🏻‍💻
  • Conversational: Hebrew
  • Basic: Spanish, Japanese
Home cities
  • New York, NY, USA
  • Boston, MA, USA
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Passport-ready Yes
NDA-ready Yes

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Rates and Policies

Customize your order

I offer social-only or virtual (online), GFE ("vanilla"), and pro-submissive BDSM/kinky GFE companionship.

Social & Virtual rates GFE/vanilla FS rates Pro-sub/BDSM rates

My rates for incalls and outcalls are the same. An incall fee may apply at some of my incall locations or for hotel arrangements—see my tours and availability page for more information. Transportation costs for outcalls are not included in the fee schedule below.

Each in-date extension equals my base hourly rate for the booked service (e.g., 1 hour). Please inquire about rates for content shoots or collaborations, longer multi-day dates, travel to/with you (“FMTY”) bookings, or ongoing arrangements.

Social-only, add-ons, and online
Social-only date Reserve now

$200 USD

Details

☕️🍻 Casual, zero-pressure meet and greet/meet cute; 🍝 dinner date, 🏸 sporting activity, 🧺 picnic, etcetera.

  • Rate shown is per hour.
  • Booking a social-only date can also serve as your (pre-)screening option.
  • Does not include transportation or activity cost.
Intro call and deposit (20 minutes) Reserve now

$60 USD

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Friendly, casual audio call to help you decide whether you’d like to book an in-person session, prepare for our date by chatting, discussing any logistics, or simply to quell any concerns.

  • Price of the call can be applied towards your deposit if you book within one (1) month.
Video date Reserve now

$200 USD

Details

Virtual tryst over private video chat.

  • Rate shown is per hour.
Custom photo/video Order now

$50 USD

Details

A photo or video made just the way you like it.

  • Choose softcore, vanilla, hardcore, or kink/fetish content.
  • Some of my favorite toys including handcuffs and collars can be added for free.
  • Price is subject to change based on production complexity and video length.
  • Rush production and delivery available for an additional fee.
Fan site (monthly subscription) Order now

$15 USD

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Access to exclusive content on my 🌶️ sites.
Texting (30 minutes) Reserve now

$40 USD

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Perfect for dipping one’s toe into what our unique chemistry is like.

I also offer longer texting packages for those who appreciate a good textual tease. Start here and inquire within. :)

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GFE/vanilla full service
1 hour Reserve now

$500 USD

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Dedicated playdate.

  • Discounted rates available for longer bookings as shown.
  • Does not include incall fee or transportation cost.
90 minutes Reserve now

$675 USD

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  • 10% off.
  • Recommended minimum.
2 hours Reserve now

$875 USD

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  • 12.5% off.
3 hours Reserve now

$1,200 USD

Details
  • 20% off.
  • Minimum required for travel outside my home cities when not touring.
4 hours Reserve now

$1,500 USD

Details
  • 25% off.
  • Requires outing.
6 hours Reserve now

$2,100 USD

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  • 30% off.
  • Requires outing and shared meal.
Overnight (~14 hours) Inquire now

$3,500 USD

Details

Perfect for an evening full of cuddles, or sprinkled with light fetishes like spanking and modest restraints.

  • 50% discount off my hourly rate.
  • Requires outing, shared meal, and beauty sleep.
Getaway weekend Inquire now

$5,000 USD

Details

Party hard, play harder! I’ll be all yours for two full days (except for some solo moments to let us freshen up for one another in our mysterious ways), so you can enjoy a weekend escape with me.

  • Requires outings for some fresh air.
  • Ask about fly-me-to-you options!
Pro-submissive/BDSM full service
1 hour Reserve now

$700 USD

Details

Make me vulnerable, watch me bruise.

  • Full service with BDSM is available when negotiated.
  • Available only to returning friends after our first date.
  • Discounted rates available for longer bookings as shown.
  • Does not include incall fee or transportation cost.
2 hours Reserve now

$1,225 USD

Details
  • 12.5% off
  • Recommended minimum.
3 hours Reserve now

$1,680 USD

Details
  • 20% off
  • Requires time for warmup and cool down/after care.

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Policies

Deposit Policy

I accept deposits via cryptocurrency (ZEC or XMR preferred, BTC or ETH accepted), gift cards, or fiat payment apps. Always leave the payment app's transaction note/memo field blank.

  • One-quarter (25%) of the total booking cost while in my hometown.
  • One-third (33%) of the total booking cost while touring.

Deposits are non-refundable and non-transferable, except when cancelling in certain cases. (See my cancellation policy for details.) Your date is not confirmed until its deposit is confirmed.

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Cancellation Policy

It's okay, you can always cancel or reschedule a date for any reason, no questions asked. If you cancel with:

  • 3 or more days (72 hours) notice, the full amount (100%) of your non-refundable deposit can be applied to another date.
  • 3 to 1 days (72-24 hours) notice, half (50%) of your non-refundable deposit can be applied one time only to another date.
  • 1 day or less (24 hours) notice, your non-refundable deposit will be forfeited.

When applying the deposit for a cancelled date towards the next, that next date must be no later than 3 months after your original booking.

In the unlikely event that I have to cancel our date, you'll promptly have your full deposit returned to you and I will do my best to offer you another opportunity to meet.

(Please note that I accept patronage for my time and companionship only.)

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Booking Form

I’m driven by novelty and curiosity, so I’m already eager to meet you. Yes, you. My booking form, below, will help you draft an inquiry and make the perfect first impression! (More tips for making a good first impression.) Click the small info symbol (ⓘ) linked beside a field for detailed information about what’s expected in it.

Hi, Violet.

Please allow me to introduce myself.

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I've been drawn to you since…

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I'm ready to plan a date!

ⓘ ⓘ ⓘ hour(s) ⓘ ⓘ . ⓘ Would either of these options allow us to meet?

I'm excited to hear from you!

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3. Paste your inquiry message text into the Signal chat!

Connection Methods

I can be reached via any of the following channels, though I strongly prefer encrypted messaging via Signal Private Messenger. (You’ll earn a $40 USD discount for booking entirely over Signal as a thank you for helping to protect your privacy and mine.)

When reaching out to book a session, only messages that include all of the same information that my booking form asks you to provide will receive a reply. If you don't receive a reply, this is likely why.

Otherwise, you may also contact me via email addressed to [email protected], using WhatsApp, and finally by text/SMS to +13473157531 if necessary.

Please be patient as it may take a day for me to reply.

In the meantime, explore the Good Client Guide for more helpful advice about how to prepare for your date with a provider like me, or have a look at some of my hot friends.

First Contact

In your first message

My booking form can help you write a message that includes all the information I need from you for us to meet. When writing me, always include:

  • Your preferred name.
  • When you're hoping to see me; supply both a preferred and an alternate date and time.
  • How long you'd like to see me for. See my rates for helpful guidance in selecting a duration.
  • Where you want to meet: my place/"incall," your place/"outcall," or indicate a social date/meet and greet. Look up my travel dates if you're not sure where I'll be.
  • If this is our first contact, choose a screening method you're comfortable using. Screening is easy and mandatory.

Do's and don'ts

Here are some things to keep in mind when writing me. Please:

do… do not…
include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form. write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me.
mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then. use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults.
speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting. speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group.
be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults. under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is in any way involved.

Please do reach out without fear of your gender, race, ethnicity, size, or religion. I respond best to respectful inquiries from individuals or couples who are fueled by my energy, are hungry for intimacy, or eager to shed lingering shames.

Explore the Good Client Guide for more communication tips and generally useful information.

Screening options

If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to complete my lightweight screening process. Everyone must screen. (Why?)

I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.

You can successfully screen by completing any one (1) of the following requirements:

  • attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid, clearly readable government-issued photo ID card/document plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • attaching a selfie plus a LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • scheduling and sending a deposit for a meet-and-greet/social-only date (at my social rate) where we will physically meet in a public venue.

I consider messages that lack screening information to be incomplete. I may not reply to them. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

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Tours and Travel locations

As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly, so you’ll want to plan in advance or risk rolling the dice on our stars aligning. My travel calendar, embedded below, is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be at any given time.

You can subscribe to my calendar directly via your Google Calendar to get reminders ahead of when I'll be in a new city. You can also bring me to you by sponsoring a tour or booking an extended date.

With advanced scheduling, I'm also passport-ready and available:

  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or more.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or more.
  • some international locales.

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Availability

As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together.

Incall Availability

I can privately host us at:

  • a luxury condo in New York City near several city public transit lines
  • a private house with a dedicated play room in the Boston/North Shore area

Showers and easy street parking are available at both locations.

Outcall Availability

If you would like to host:

  • I require round-trip fare for car service (including 20% tip for drivers) in addition to my usual rate paid up front.
  • For safety, I only meet new friends for the first time at a 4- or 5-star hotel, not at their personal residence. If you would like to book me for outcalls to your home, please first book a social-only date so that we may get comfortable with one another.

Hotel arrangements

If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice) at cost for the hotel reservation.

Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)

Short notice availability

My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:

  • lack of foreplanning may incur a rush fee to cover last-minute higher lodging or travel costs.
  • new friends are still required to screen, which may take time, so I encourage you to get pre-screened if you often need this kind of spontaneous appointment.

Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.

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Frequently Asked Questions (and Answers)

When choosing a companion, especially for the first time, you may have a lot of questions. A lot of these questions get asked very frequently, so I’ve gathered them here to make my answers easier for you to find, and easier for me to reference when needed.

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  1. Why must I screen? / Screening makes me nervous.
  2. How do I pass your screening process?
  3. Do you entertain groups?
  4. Is it okay if I am older/need a wheelchair/Black/genderqueer/etc.?
  5. May I request a specific outfit or makeup?
  6. What does your QR code tramp stamp go to?
  7. What should I wear for our date?
  8. When will you be in my city?
  9. Will you dominate me?

Why must I screen? / Screening makes me nervous.

I understand why screening may make you feel anxious. But the thought of spending time alone with me presumably doesn’t.

Consider that, until we are physically acquainted, the thought of spending time alone with you may make me slightly anxious, but screening you doesn’t.

Screening is meant to feel asymmetrical because its purpose is to restore some balance to the way we start out.

The thing about balance is that it’s very comfortable. After all, what is grace if not extreme levels of balance? When one is subjected to massive nonerotic power imbalances, it’s hard to get comfortable. One can’t be as open. Getting naked feels intrusive or violating.

And no one wants that. Right?

Moreover, before you screen, I simply cannot know who I may be speaking with. Since literally anyone might contact me, screening confirms that you are a consenting adult and is unconditionally required to interact with me in any meaningful way. For my safety and comfort, I am simply not comfortable significantly engaging with you otherwise.

Screening is easy and you can be done with it after your very first message to me.

How do I pass your screening process?

My screening process is like many other providers’ and is required for our mutual safety and comfort. There are no exceptions. Everyone must screen. (Why?)

The Contact page on my site offers a summary of your screening options. Only one (1) of the listed items is required to successfully pass screening, not all of them. Two of your options are remote and one is in person. Briefly once more, those options are:

  • Attaching a selfie plus a well-established LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a number from a texting app or burner phone) to your next message to me.
  • Attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid government-issued photo ID plus a carrier phone number (not a number from a texting app or burner phone) to your next message to me.
  • Booking me for a platonic, meet-and-greet/social-only date. My usual deposit and cancellation policies will apply.

Again, screening is mandatory; the above listing describes a minimum requirement to pass my screening process. At my sole discretion, I may require additional validation of the information you provide in order to feel comfortable seeing you. The more information you give me before I have to ask for it, the more likely we are to be fantastically compatible. Conversely, if you are not ready to be screened, please wait until you are before contacting me.

Keep these points in mind when screening:

  • Both remote screening options require a selfie and a carrier (non-burner) phone number; it’s not either/or, it’s both/and.
  • Your selfie must be current, must match your LinkedIn profile pic or ID document photo, and must not be the same pic as your profile or ID document photo itself.
  • When sending an ID document, you may redact all information printed on it except your full name, photo, and date of birth (or birth year if that is enough to prove you are not a minor).
  • Ensure the text on your ID is readable. Sending images via SMS/txt often degrades them; I recommend booking via Signal Private Messenger.
  • To make a stellar first impression, consider providing any verification information you feel comfortable offering, whether or not it is listed above.

Finally, please remember that I consider messages lacking screening information to be incomplete and I may simply not reply to them.

Do you entertain groups?

Yes, and happily! I am enthusiastically bisexual and love joining fun-loving straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual couples for all sorts of adventurous shenanigans! I’m also happy to entertain groups of friends at private parties or similar events.

In either case, I’ll simply need each individual participant to screen and reach out to me individually so I can confirm everyone involved is on the same page and consenting, as I can’t accept bookings when communicating through a proxy.

To book me for a group event, simply ask everyone in your party to fill in my booking form and tell them to note that they are part of the same group.

Is it okay if I am older/need a wheelchair/Black/genderqueer/etc.?

Absolutely, wholeheartedly, unequivocally yes, it is okay, and I am deeply disheartened that the world is still such that it makes you feel the need to ask, although I do understand why you do. What matters to me is the way you treat me. As long as you are of legal age, your race, years of experience, looks, religion, nationality, tax bracket, and other demographic information is in no way a determining factor for whether or not I’ll meet with you.

The only information you need to disclose about yourself to see me is the information I ask for in my booking and screening process. The only exception to this is if you have accessibility needs that may prevent me from sufficiently accomodating you at my incall or you have other factors such as medical conditions you’d like to disclose to ensure I can appropriately prepare for and ensure that our time together is enjoyable for us.

Beyond that, I will also keep in mind anything else you do feel is important to share with me and will pay attention to how that can affect our experience together.

May I request a specific outfit or makeup?

Yes and yes! I love knowing what gets you going! With enough time to prepare, we can make fantasies come to life!

While my usual look is “casual but kinky,” I have a growing collection of leather, lace, and lingerie, including some cute specialty items like garters and chokers good for roleplay or fetish scenes. I also tend to wear only very light amounts of makeup (for that natural “no-makeup makeup” look), unless asked to do otherwise. If you want me to arrive “all done up,” don’t skimp on a tip for my salon appointment!

Please always feel comfortable requesting something specific, but remember that if I don’t already have it on hand, I’ll ask you to cover the cost of the item. Otherwise, you may need to acquire it yourself and bring it with you to our date. In fact, bringing gifts like this is an extremely reliable way to ensure a fantastic time with me!

See also: “What should I wear for our date?”

What does your QR code tramp stamp go to?

Hmm, that’s for me to know, and for you to bend me over to find out. Book me.

What should I wear for our date?

The short answer is: wear whatever you’re comfortable in. Yes, for real! If we’re going out, dress in whatever’s appropriate for the venue or activity. You can always ask me for my thoughts if you’re still unsure.

When we’re in private, it’s really more about inviting one another into our respective spaces—physically and emotionally—so I feel like the phrase “come as you are” is very fitting. I personally feel that comfort over curation is a superior approach more often than not.

What should I wear for video dates?

For video dates, the biggest difference from in-person dates (for me anyway), is that they tend to have this feel of, like, “dropping in” to whatever part of our day is happening. This tends to make video dates either have a very premeditated intention or the exact opposite, where we discover the vibe together.

I’ve had a lot of fun on morning video dates while still in my nightie. I’ve had fun on video dates late at night after just arriving home from a club! And I’ve had fun on video dates in between laptop work sessions. And I was more or less dressed as you’d expect for each of those…at least at first. ;)

As for my date’s outfit, in one memorable case, he wore a cozy flannel number and loose shorts and was in his living room. It’s also not unusual to wear whatever you might go to bed in, especially if you’ll be video’ing from bed. A robe, perhaps, or pajamas! It’s also okay, with me at least, if you want to show up naked, though it’s courteous to limit that to dates intentionally set up for this kind of experience, i.e., only if we’ve agreed on that beforehand!

Personally, I prefer to start clothed and undress on camera during our date, because I think that’s part of the fun of a real-time, live experience! So if matching me would help your nerves at all, consider when our video date is scheduled for. Early morning, I’ll probably be in more casual wear. Mid-day, I’ll be in a cute daytime ‘fit for turning heads when out and about. Later at night, more likely something befitting my nightlife hobbies!

Regardless, I’m also always happy to accomodate requests. Whatever I’ll be in, I’ll be looking forward to slowly peeling it off of myself to give you a peek at what’s underneath. 😘

When will you be in my city?

I religiously maintain my public travel calendar, which will show you where I’m planning to be and when. You can even subscribe to it directly in your calendaring application of choice, like Google Calendar, and get notified of when I’ll be in a new city. However, you are much more likely to find me in your city if you bring me to it!

With advanced scheduling, I'm also passport-ready and available:

  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or more.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or more.
  • some international locales.

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Will you dominate me?

In brief: no, I don’t offer services in which I play a stereotypically dominant role. The one exception to this is chastity keyholding when part of an established dynamic; I do love to please via tease!

A more nuanced answer: I am exclusively submissive but, make no mistake, my submission is far from meek. I’m more of a power princess than pillow princess, and I adore co-creating unique dynamics tailor-made to specific fantasies. This can take time and will surely feel intensely intimate (because it is), but the rewards are literally once-in-a-lifetime experiences that turn fantasies into realities in otherwise impossible ways.

My innate confidence, boisterous joy, and shamelessly eager sexuality makes me anything but a cookie cutter submissive partner. I’ll happily toy with you if you can give as good as you get, and I relish diving into psychological nuances of complex power play.

If you are simply looking for a one-on-one session with a traditional pro-domme to bottom to or receive specific sensations from, I can refer you to one of my very hot dominant partners.

Otherwise, consider that many kinds of play are enhanced by the presence of a fellow submissive like me. These include cuck sessions, co-bottoming, tandem bondage buddies, group play, or creative “sub4sub” vibes.

As part of a duo or group, I thoroughly enjoy contributing to your demise under the direction of a dominant to whom we are both submitting. Or maybe we are simply exploring as two submissives? Maybe we tie our wrists together, then tug and touch each other all over; let’s egg each other on in an endless game of truth or dare; we can amplify our kinks in unexpected ways! Perhaps we’ll even invite some friends to watch us—and, perhaps, to touch us. The more creative, the better!

Once you have successfully screened, I’m also happy to discuss and suggest more intricate details for unique encounters like these to help you fulfill fantasies you may not even know you have yet!

Duo Partners

Plug and play

Spending quality time together one-on-one is lovely, but I'd be remiss not to introduce you to some of my stunning friends. So if you're looking for even more plug and play fun, I can coordinate threesomes (or moresomes) in a range of configurations with the extraordinary providers I list here. And please let me know if you'd like to see me with a provider who isn't listed. We could develop an expansion pack together….

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