Violet Rollergirl’s Resources for Clients

This page lists resources I’ve created to help clients. I also highly recommend the Good Client Guide and the Satisfaction Project, two excellent client education websites.

Booking guide

One of my favorite things about being a trans provider is sharing in that moment of discovery with you, and relishing the joy, relief, and opening of possibility that comes with it.

To experience that, of course, you must first book me.

I wrote this booking guide to help those of you who want a meticulously crafted step-by-step walk through to follow for booking time with me. It explains how to start and what to do at every step of the way.

How to book me

Discretion-maxxing, or How To Find, Book, and Pay Escorts Completely Secretly

It’s never been easier for two people to learn about each other, communicate with one another, and send money to one another, all without anyone else ever being aware they’ve done this. That has some absolutely wild, even revolutionary implications.

For our purposes, it means that if you’re looking to book an escort and want to do so without anyone on the Internet knowing you did that (except the companion you’re going to meet, of course), you need to do it the way I show you in this guide. ¡Viva la Revolución!

Discretion-maxxing

Messaging discreetly

I’m not here to judge your need to keep what happens in Vegas, well, in Vegas. In fact, as a trans sex worker, I’m here for it.

Unfortunately, a lot of uninformed clients are making some rookie mistakes when trying to keep our messages between us. In this guide, I’ll show you my favorite ways to keep messages private and our remote interactions discreet.

How to message discreetly

Using cryptocurrency

Cryptocurrency is now a popular way to pay providers. Some providers, like me, even prefer it over every other form of payment.

If you’re new to using cryptocurrency, it can feel a little daunting the first time, but it can offer powerful privacy and security benefits. Besides, you only need to set things up once.

My cryptocurrency explainers are designed to help you get set up and ready to send payments from your digital wallet or crypto account(s) as quickly and simply as possible.

How to pay in crypto

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Hello, friend! I'm Violet.

If you're curious, yes, I live on my rollerblades…but I do know when to take them off. ;)

Violet Rollergirl

Brilliant, bubbly, and beautifully nerdy, I don't wait to be entertained; I'll make the first move, get you laughing, and invite you into the moment with grace and without pressure.

It's okay if I'm your "first" because, don't worry, you wouldn't be mine!

Whether seeking companionship is new to you, or companionship with a trans woman specifically, I create a space where exploring our unique chemistry unfolds at your pace.

I love connection—the kind where you feel seen and heard, and deeply. The sort of genuine coupling where our affection lingers in your mind long after we say goodnight.

What were dates like?

Earnest, enthusiastic, confident confidant

For me, intimacy is the practice of trust, timing, and tension. Every shared look, touch felt, and word spoken is a deliberate choice, a dance in spaces between confidence and curiosity.

I believe pleasure is most profound when wrapped in the comfort of safety, yet without sacrificing the thrill of adventure. Our connection will be compassionate and cuddly, not chaotic.

I'm bubbly, witty, playful, kind, and unapologetically curious about everything, especially you. Make me yearn for you by being as uninhibited and free-spirited in my presence as I am in yours.

Meet me at my well-equipped private spaces in NYC and Boston, or bring me to you for a rendezvous as limitless as our imaginations.

Explore Availability

More about your companion

I'm fit, freckled, and fascinated by the way technology, touch, and emotion intersect. I have skin softer than silk and equally soft hair in curly red ringlets, with a mind sharper than a diamond's edge.

Maybe you've guessed: science fiction (Star Trek or Star Wars—I'm not religious!), cyberpunk retro tech, techno beats, and vintage video games are my happy places. There are depths to discover about how I've become "the girl with the QR code tattoo."

I'm obsessed with projects that keep my brain spinning as fast as my wheels. My current fixation? Navigating cryptocurrency charts and blockchain rabbit holes. I'm the rare girl who appreciates both a perfectly executed API and a perfectly paired wine.

Nerdy? Perhaps. But decoding patterns whets my appetite for discovery…in all its forms.

Vitals and specs

Sweet or spicy?

My candy coating comes in a couple flavors, but poise and courage season them all.

Catch me running the pool table in my skirt—and my skates! Feel how I shift between rooftop cocktails and dive bar mischief.

I'm not new to power exchange. I've studied it, lived it, brought it to life in clubs from Brooklyn to Berlin.

Want to explore your dominant side? I get kinkier than my curls. Years in leather and BDSM circles taught me control and surrender are a language—one I'm fluent in.

Whether you're looking for an oasis of affection, something deliciously darker, or a unique mix of sweetness and spice, I'm your perfect power princess, not a passive pillow princess.

Tell me what you crave

If you're the type…

…who thinks as much as you feel, who laughs before they lean in, who appreciates genuine connection over pretense? Maybe it's time you met Brooklyn's Power Princess.

Introduce yourself

I've gone to great lengths to ensure our relationship remains completely confidential by prioritizing encrypted communications at every opportunity. Learn more about my privacy and discretion guarantees.

Tech specs

Height 5 feet, 7 inches (169cm)
Body type Athletic, toned
Cup size Natural B
Penile appearance

Circumcised

(Full nudity visible in many videos and other content.)
Sexual orientation Enthusiastically bisexual
Tattoos One (learn more)
Piercings Ears, nipples
Languages
  • Fluent: English, JavaScript, Shell 👩🏻‍💻
  • Conversational: Hebrew
  • Basic: Spanish, Japanese
Home cities
  • New York, NY, USA
  • Boston, MA, USA
See where I am today.
Travel/Passport-ready
  • FMTY: 6+ hours
  • TMTY: 3+ hours
Learn more about travel arrangements.
NDA-ready Yes

Want to see more of me? Find and follow me online via my Links page.

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Copyright © by Violet Rollergirl, 2026. All rights reserved.

Rates and Policies

Customize your order

I offer social-only or virtual (online), GFE, and pro-submissive/kinky GFE companionship.

Social & Virtual rates GFE FS rates Pro-sub/kinky GFE rates

Social-only, add-ons, and online
Cuddle date Reserve now

$250 USD

Details

Big spoon, little spoon, or both? Clothing optional touch without expectation or pressure for more.
Social-only date Reserve now

$200 USD

Details

☕️🍻 Casual, zero-pressure meet and greet/meet cute; 🍝 dinner date, 🏸 sporting activity, 🧺 picnic, etcetera.

  • Rate shown is per hour.
  • Meeting this way can also serve as your (pre-)screening option.
  • Does not include transportation or activity cost.
Video date Reserve now

$200 USD

Details

Virtual tryst over private video chat via Signal Private Messenger or WhatsApp.

  • Rate shown is per hour.
Curiosity call (30 minutes) Reserve now

$60 USD

Details

Friendly, casual audio call to help you decide whether you’d like to book an in-person session, prepare for our date by chatting, discussing any logistics, or simply to quell any concerns.

  • Price of the call can be applied towards your deposit if you book within one (1) month.
Custom photo/video Order now

$50 USD

Details

A photo or video made just the way you like it.

  • Choose softcore, vanilla, hardcore, or kink/fetish content.
  • Some of my favorite toys including handcuffs and collars can be added for free.
  • Price is subject to change based on production complexity and video length.
  • Rush production and delivery available for an additional fee.
Texting (30 minutes) Reserve now

$40 USD

Details

Perfect for dipping one’s toe into what our unique chemistry is like.

I also offer longer texting packages for those who appreciate a good textual tease. Start here and inquire within. :)
Fan site (monthly subscription) Order now

$15 USD

Details

Access to exclusive content on my 🌶️ sites.

Violet Rollergirl lounges in a bikini at the side of a pool in a tropical villa.

GFE full service
6 hours Reserve now

$2,100 USD

Details
  • 30% off.
  • Requires shared meal.
4 hours Reserve now

$1,500 USD

Details
  • 25% off.
3 hours Reserve now

$1,200 USD

Details
  • 20% off.
  • Minimum required for travel outside my home cities when not touring.
2 hours Reserve now

$875 USD

Details
  • 12.5% off.
  • Most popular.
90 minutes Reserve now

$700 USD

Details
  • 6.67% off.
  • Recommended minimum.
1 hour Reserve now

$500 USD

Details

Dedicated playdate.

  • Discounted rates available for longer bookings as shown.
  • Does not include incall fee or transportation cost.
Overnight (~14 hours) Inquire now

$3,500 USD

Details

Perfect for an evening full of cuddles, or sprinkled with light fetishes like spanking and modest restraints.

  • 50% discount off my hourly rate.
  • Requires shared meal, and beauty sleep.
Getaway weekend Inquire now

$5,000 USD

Details

Party hard, play harder! I’ll be all yours for two full days (except for some solo moments to let us freshen up for one another in our mysterious ways), so you can enjoy a weekend escape with me.

  • Requires outings for some fresh air.
  • Ask about fly-me-to-you options!

Pro-submissive/kinky GFE full service
3 hours Reserve now

$1,680 USD

Details
  • 20% off
  • Requires time for warmup and cool down/after care.
2 hours Reserve now

$1,225 USD

Details
  • 12.5% off
  • Recommended minimum.
1 hour Reserve now

$700 USD

Details

Make me vulnerable, watch me bruise.

  • Full service with BDSM is available when negotiated.
  • Available only to returning friends after our first date.
  • Discounted rates available for longer bookings as shown.
  • Does not include incall fee or transportation cost.

Violet Rollergirl kneels on a sectional in front of a walls of kinky toys including collars, cuffs, and gags. She is wearing a miniskirt and a fishnet top.

My rates for incalls and outcalls are the same. An incall fee may apply at some of my incall locations or for hotel arrangements. Transportation costs for outcalls are not included in the fee schedule.

Each in-date extension equals my base hourly rate for the booked service (e.g., 1 hour). Please inquire about rates for content shoots or collaborations, longer multi-day dates, travel to/with you (“TMTY/FMTY”) bookings, or ongoing arrangements. I accept numerous payment methods.

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Policies

Deposit Policy ( What's a deposit?)

I accept deposits via dozens of cryptocurrencies (e.g., ZEC or XMR preferred, BTC or ETH accepted), major debit or credit cards, some gift cards, or select privacy-preserving payment apps. (Which ones?)

  • One-fifth (20%) of the total booking cost while in my hometown(s).
  • One-third (33%) of the total booking cost while touring.

Deposits are non-refundable, except in the rare case I must cancel our date, but they can be transferred to another date should you need to reschedule. (See my cancellation policy for details.) Our time together is confirmed only after I receive your deposit.

FAQ Links

Cancellation Policy

It's okay, you can always cancel or reschedule a date for any reason, no questions asked. If you cancel with:

  • 3 or more days (72 hours) notice, the full amount (100%) of your deposit can be applied toward the fee for another date.
  • 3 to 1 days (72-24 hours) notice, half (50%) of your deposit can be applied one time only toward the fee for another date.
  • 1 day or less (24 hours) notice, your deposit will be forfeited.
  • No call/no show ("ghosting") clients are still expected to send the full fee promptly.

When applying the deposit for a cancelled date towards my fee for the next, that next date must be no later than 3 months after your original booking. Past deposits only apply towards the next date's fee, not their initial deposits; deposits are unconditionally required to reserve any time in my calendar. I'll send a reminder before our date so you have time to reschedule if needed.

In the rare event I'm forced to cancel our date, I will offer to promptly return your full deposit to you and will make every effort to give us another opportunity to meet.

(Please note that I accept patronage for my time and companionship only.)

Book Violet Rollergirl via Google Calendar

Booking Form ( Booking Guide)

I’m driven by novelty and curiosity, so I’m already eager to meet you. Yes, you. The fastest way to meet me is to introduce yourself using my radically secure booking form, below, to make a great first impression! Don't like forms? Send me a bespoke love note instead.

Hi, Violet. Please allow me to introduce myself.

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I've been drawn to you since…

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My deposit…

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I'm ready to plan a date!

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Would either of these options allow us to meet?

I'm excited to hear from you!

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3. Paste your inquiry message text into the Signal chat!

Connection Methods ( Which is most private?)

Please feel free to save my contact card and write me anytime. I strongly prefer encrypted messaging via Signal Private Messenger. (You’ll earn a $40 USD discount off our first date if you book entirely over Signal as a thank you for helping to protect your privacy and mine. Learn how to earn more discounts….)

When reaching out to book, please include all of the same information that my booking form asks you to provide to receive a reply. If you don't hear back from me, that's likely why.

Otherwise, you may also contact me via email addressed to [email protected], using WhatsApp, over Jabber/XMPP instant message, and finally by text/SMS to +1 929-5-KISS-VI if necessary.

Please be patient as it may take a day for me to reply.

In the meantime, explore the Good Client Guide and the Satisfaction Project for more helpful advice about how to prepare for your date with a provider like me, or have a look at some of my hot friends.

First Contact

  • Please read my etiquette policies and be sure you understand my availability and rates before writing.

  • You may also want to review my “do’s and don’ts” for making first contact. My FAQ page can also allay any concerns you may have.

  • Especially generic messages are likely to trigger my spam filter or auto-responder; I may not see them.

  • If you’d like even more handholding, I wrote a thorough step-by-step Booking Guide just for you!

In your first message

My booking form can help you write a message that includes all the information I need from you for us to meet. When writing me, always include:

  • Your preferred name.
  • When you're hoping to see me; supply both a preferred and an alternate date and time.
  • How long you'd like to see me for. See my rates for helpful guidance in selecting a duration.
  • Where you want to meet: my place/"incall," your place/"outcall," or indicate a social date/meet and greet. Look up my travel dates if you're not sure where I'll be.
  • If this is our first contact, choose a screening method you're comfortable using. Screening is easy and mandatory.

Do's and don'ts

Here are some things to keep in mind when writing me. Please:

do… do not…
include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form. write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me.
mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then. use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults.
speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting. speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group.
be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults. under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is in any way involved.

Please do reach out without fear of your gender, race, ethnicity, size, or religion. I respond best to respectful inquiries from individuals or couples who are fueled by my energy, are hungry for intimacy, or eager to shed lingering shames.

Explore the Good Client Guide or the Satisfaction Project for more communication tips and generally useful information.

Screening options ( What's screening?)

If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to complete my lightweight screening process. Everyone must screen. (Why?)

I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.

You can successfully screen by completing any one (1) of the following requirements:

  • attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid government-issued photo ID card/document showing at least your full name, birthyear, and photo (the rest may be redacted), plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • attaching a selfie plus a LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • scheduling and sending a deposit for a meet-and-greet/social-only date (at my social rate) where we will physically meet in a public venue.

I consider messages that lack screening information to be incomplete. I may not reply to them. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Booking Form

Tours and Travel locations ( What is a tour?)

As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly. My travel calendar is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be. Planning ahead is the best way to ensure I’ll make availability for you. Unmarked days are flexible, so suggest a date via my booking form.

Subscribe to my calendar in Google Calendar to get reminders ahead of my travel dates.

You can bring me to you by booking a date. As a general rule of thumb, with advanced scheduling, I'm passport-ready and available to travel:

  • by car to points within an hour's distance for bookings of 90 minutes or longer.
  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or longer.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or longer.
  • some international locales for overnights or extended stays.

Similar to outcalls, I can itemize travel expenses and will ask you to cover them up-front.

Rates Policies Booking Form

Availability ( “right now?”)

As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together. I'm discerning and selective, so while same-day sessions are possible, I always prioritize returning friends and longer bookings over short-notice quickies with new friends.

Incall Availability

I can host us in my home cities…

  • in NYC: several private options near public transit lines, including a luxury condo and decadent dungeon
  • in Boston/North Shore: a quiet house with a dedicated kinky play room

Showers () and easy parking () are available at all my incalls in both cities.

Outcall Availability

If you would like to host:

  • I require round-trip fare for car service (including 20% tip for drivers) in addition to my usual rate paid up front.
  • For safety, I only meet new friends for the first time at a 4- or 5-star hotel, not at their personal residence. If you would like to book me for outcalls to your home, please first book a social-only date so that we may get comfortable with one another.

Hotel arrangements

If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice).

Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)

Short notice availability ( “u avail?”)

My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:

  • lack of foreplanning may incur a rush fee to cover last-minute higher lodging or travel costs.
  • new friends are still required to screen, which may take time, so I encourage you to get pre-screened if you often need this kind of spontaneous appointment.

Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.

Rates Policies Booking Form

Frequently Asked Questions (and Answers)

When choosing a companion, especially for the first time, you may have some questions! A lot of these questions get asked very frequently, so I’ve gathered them here to make my answers easier for you to find, and easier for me to reference when needed.

Violet relaxes in the sands of a beach on all fours as she enjoys the waves.

About me

  1. Do you have any reviews?
  2. What does your QR code tramp stamp go to?
  3. Will you dominate me?
  4. Do you entertain couples or groups?

About you

  1. Will you meet with someone much younger or older?
  2. Is it okay if I am older/need a wheelchair/Black/genderqueer/etc.?

Booking

  1. Are you available right now?
  2. What payment methods can I use? Do you take CashApp/PayPal/Venmo?
  3. What is a deposit? / What's your deposit policy?
  4. What is your cancellation policy?
  5. How do I redeem an Easter egg discount?

Meeting

  1. What if you (or I) get misgendered while on our date?
  2. When will you be in my city?
  3. What should I wear for our date?
  4. What clothing is appropriate for video dates?
  5. May I request a specific outfit or makeup?

Screening

  1. Why must I screen? / Screening makes me nervous.
  2. How do I pass your screening process?

Duo Partners

Plug and play

Spending quality time together one-on-one is lovely, but I'd be remiss not to introduce you to some of my stunning friends. So if you're looking for even more plug and play fun, I can coordinate threesomes (or moresomes) in a range of configurations with the extraordinary providers I list here. And please let me know if you'd like to see me with a provider who isn't listed. We could develop an expansion pack together….

Mylo Ryn

Dominant trans masc twink

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Silly and sassy rollerblading adventurer. Tattooed and travel-sized companion. Sexually verse. Always dominant. As seen in porn tying and locking up cute subby trans girls.

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Mylo Ryn kisses Violet Rollergirl as she is tied in a tight spread eagle seated on the floor in front of floor-to-cieling windows in a high rise overlooking Honolulu's downtown district. Mylo Ryn ties Violet Rollergirl in a quick chest harness with diaphragm constrictor line and a double-column ankle tie as they smile to themselves. Violet is in her panties with her skirt strewn about the floor nearby.

Master Apex

Devious Pro-Dominant of NYC

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Playfully controlling and seductively sadistic, Master Apex is that rare BDSM dominant who is at once devious and mischevious yet empathic and caring. Apex draws out your darkest desires, and is unmatched at turning Hell into Heaven—and back again.

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Eve Laurie

Fun firecracker and fellow incorrigible slut

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Fun, suburban, tatooed firecracker with an artistic bent and DIY punk spirit. A playful and sophisticated playmate bringing the spark of chemistry everywhere she goes.

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Emberlyn Slade

Petite and sweet, with a wicked streak

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Petite, quick-witted, and genuinely engaging, Emberlyn loves people who think, who feel, who show up with kindness and an open mind. She is someone whose intellect and warmth is worth getting lost in, and a joy to explore together.

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Big Bear

Top bear daddy giant

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Big, handsome Dom who loves to share my kinky fun and action with you. Kinky, flirty, affectionate, bi (top), giant of a man.

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