Are you available right now?
My short-notice availability largely depends on your ability to:
- communicate when, where, and for how long you’d like to see me for,
- complete screening,
- and send your deposit
in a timely and efficient manner.
Asking me “are you available?” does none of these things. It does cause further delay while your window of opportunity to see me continues to close. In contrast, filling out my booking form is the fastest way to meet me.
Longer answer
Clients who book ahead get more head.
—Ancient heaux proverb
I usually book between 2 days to 2 weeks in advance. While I can sometimes make myself available for dates on shorter notice than that, doing so requires ample cooperation from you.
Famously, I do enjoy spontaneous adventures, but I’m much more likely to be able to see you “right now,” on short notice, or same-day if we are already acquainted. This is because it takes time to intake all session details, complete screening, send and confirm a deposit, and actually move our bodies to the same physical place to meet one another. This is to say nothing about possibly needing to also prepare my incall, or at least prepare my body, for your arrival.
Even in a rare perfect case, it usually takes no less than ~3 hours to set up a “last minute” date. When I’m traveling (“touring”), last-minute sessions are also sometimes infeasible precisely because if I’m in your area it’s likely for a pre-booked date and am thus focused on my existing commitment with someone else.
The best thing you can do to snag a date, whether opportunistically or otherwise, is:
- inquire ahead of time (check my calendar),
- pre-screen,
- keep a line of communication open, and
- follow me on Bluesky and/or other social media.
It’s also okay to plan for a farther-future date and then reschedule if necessary. It’s generally easy to accommodate rescheduling with minimal fuss as long as you stay communicative and provide sufficient notice.
Put simply, give your life more time, and your life will be more full of pleasure.
