Off-ramping: where and how to spend your cryptocurrency

At the end of the day, cryptocurrency is just currency. You can’t breathe it, you can’t eat it, you can’t drink it. It won’t provide companionship, fulfillment, inspiration, or joy. A number in a bank account, or a cryptocurrency wallet, won’t keep you alive. Sooner or later, you’re going to have to spend it on something.

The cryptocurrency world calls this “off-ramping,” the complement to “on-ramping.” In this case, it means turning your cryptocurrency assets into something else, whether digital or physical.

In the traditional financial system, spending money comes with a privacy trade-off: your bank, credit card company, or payment processor knows what you’re up to. Transparent (non-private) cryptocurrency systems suffer from the same problem, but worse, because everyone in the entire world can watch what you buy. This is one of the main safety benefits to using privacy coins: no one but you and the vendor you’re buying from knows what you’re up to.

In this article

  1. Paying directly in cryptocurrency
    1. Paying in Bitcoin when you only have Zcash
  2. Piggyback on the gift card economy
    1. Pay for stuff via Flexa in Zashi
    2. Common cryptocurrency to gift card off-ramps (for sex workers)
  3. Use specialty exchange service providers
    1. Booking hotel stays and air travel with cryptocurrency
  4. Join a digital employment cooperative that accepts cryptocurrency
    1. Opolis: a crypto-native independent employment platform
  5. Convert crypto back to fiat currency

Paying directly in cryptocurrency

The easiest way to off-ramp or spend your cryptocurrency is to just pay for the thing in the same privacy coin you already have. Of course, this requires the vendor to accept payments in that privacy coin, and that’s still rare.

It’s worth pointing out that, as sex workers, we are actually quite a skilled bunch. As I’m sure you know (and as I’ve said before), sex work requires myriad skills, and most sex workers are gig workers, which means you can support many of the sex workers you know even without buying hole or pole from us. I personally know colleagues who are editors, tailors, graphic designers, leather workers, bartenders, computer programmers, cooks, tutors, and nannies who also do sex work as a supplemental income.

Community’s always been important but it’ll become more so very rapidly. If the quality is there, I’d rather get my blouse sewn by a fellow sex worker I know or one who is recommended to me by a friend. And, guess what, if they’re willing to accept payment for that service in Zcash, I’ve got my perfect off-ramp right there!

So if you’re a sex worker with such skills, share that fact with friends you trust. Build a local economy, and stay surveillance-free by using Zcash to sustain it! The true revolutionary potential of this truly cannot be overstated.

One way to think about this is: Zcash in Zashi is to money what Signal Private Messenger is to speech. Vive la révolution!

Paying in Bitcoin when you only have Zcash

Although Zcash is a superior private currency, most of the crypto world still relies on other systems, like Bitcoin. Thankfully, cryptocurrencies can be easily converted from one to another so it’s easy to pay in a vendor’s cryptocurrency of choice even if you only keep a balance in Zcash. You just have to be careful about exchange rates, conversion fees, and payment processing times.

Let’s work through a common use case I have one step at a time.

One very common need I have is to pay for my escort ads. Many escort directories and mall sites will accept payment in Bitcoin, but I’m aware of none who accept Zcash. (Obviously, if you know of one, please contact me to tell me about it!) Thankfully, once again my Zashi wallet app comes in handy here, because it has a decentralized off-ramp for shielded ZEC built into Zashi itself.

Suppose you have some ZEC and you want to load up your Tryst TLC balance. Here’s what you can do. And remember that since you already have ZEC in Zashi, it’s already shielded and private, meaning no matter how you got it, it bears no digital link back to your legal identity. This is a much better place to start than any other Bitcoin address.

  1. First, log in to your Tryst account and access their “Add credits” screen.

    Screenshot from Tryst's support knowledge base showing how to access the 'Add credits' screen from their navigation menu.

  2. Since this is your first time paying in ZEC, choose to purchase a small “Custom” amount of TLC, maybe 15 or so.
  3. Make sure you indicate that you want to pay in Bitcoin. You’re actually going to be paying directly from your shielded Zcash, but Tryst will nevertheless receive Bitcoin anyway.

    Screenshot from Tryst's support knowledge base showing their TLC credit purchase order screen.

  4. Click the “Next” button to proceed to the Tryst order summary screen.
  5. Review your purchase order for correctness and press the “Pay Now” button to reveal the Bitcoin pay window.

    Screenshot from Tryst's support knowledge base showing what their 'Pay Now' button looks like.

  6. Tryst will show you a QR code that’s similar to Zashi’s “Request” screen, with an amount already embedded in it. That’s nice, but we’re not going to use it because that QR code is intended for Bitcoin wallet apps, and we’re using a Zcash wallet app.
  7. Click on the “Copy” tab to reveal just the Bitcoin address that Tryst wants you to send your payment to. It’ll look like the right screenshot in the image below.

    Screenshot from Tryst's support knowledge base showing a side-by-side comparison of their two Bitcoin payment processing screens, the left with a QR code and the right with plain text Bitcoin addresses.

  8. Click on the address itself (not the “payment link”) to copy the Bitcoin address to your clipboard. Keep a note of this address somewhere, like a text window or just in your clipboard. We’ll need it later. I like to use Signal’s “Note to self” feature, which is also a secure way to send it to my other devices if I’m not already doing this all from one device.
  9. Now, open Zashi.
  10. Click on Zashi’s “More…” button to reveal its menu of advanced options.
  11. Choose “Swap ZEC with NEAR Intents,” which is currently the first (top) item in the resulting menu. Here’s what that looks like for me.

    Screenshot of the Zashi wallet app's 'More…' menu.

  12. Enter an amount slightly more than the amount of the purchase order you requested from Tryst. For example, if you asked for 15 TLC (which maps directly to 15 Euro), enter an amount of ZEC equivalent to 20 Euros. By default, you’ll be entering an amount in ZEC, but you can also tap the up-and-down-arrows icon underneath the payment entry amount field to switch to entering your chosen fiat currency. Zashi will show you the current exchange rate either way.
  13. Beneath this field is a drop-down menu for selecting the currency we are going to pay in. Find BTC from the list of options; it will have a small Bitcoin logo on top of a larger, second, identical Bitcoin logo. This means we’re using our shielded ZEC, but paying in Bitcoin.
  14. Make sure the fiat amount of BTC shows up as larger than the purchase order amount you requested from Tryst.
  15. In the Address field, paste the Bitcoin payment address you copied from Tryst earlier.
  16. Click “Get a quote” at the bottom of the Zashi Swap with NEAR screen. Here’s an annotated screenshot of what it looks like.

    Annotated screenshot of Zashi's decentralized exchange off-ramp powered by NEAR Intents with various functionality explained with bright text and arrows.

  17. Confirm you want to make the exchange, and send the transaction.

In my experience, it takes about 5 to 10 minutes for the transaction to complete, so make sure you have at least that much time on the Tryst payment timer before you confirm your transaction, or you may not be able to get your account credited before your purchase order expires and you’ll have to speak with support about hopefully getting a refund.

There’s a lot of sparkle-emoji technology sparkle-emoji happening here, but what’s extra cool about this is that at no point do you ever need a Bitcoin wallet! Moreover, no remnant of digital cruft exist anywhere in the various blockchains that can be meaningfully linked back to you. While the vendor you’re purchasing from may know who you are (and Tryst certainly does), they don’t know where your funds came from, and they don’t care.

Practically, this enables you to safely keep your cryptocurrency assets in the Zcash shielded pool, where they stay completely private, and still be able to pay any vendor who accepts any denomination of a supported cryptocurrency equally privately. If you do this, no one can know how rich (or poor) you really are. In contrast, if you keep your holdings in a transparent ledger system like Bitcoin, the whole world can tally your real net worth without ever asking you questions.

This is not a hypothetical example. This is in fact how I pay for my Tryst membership and other ads. Consider trying it out for your next cryptocurrency payment, too.

Piggyback on the gift card economy

Among the most common ways to spend your hard-earned cryptocurrency today is by piggybacking on the massive gift card economy for making various kinds of retail purchases. One thing that’s nice about this for us as sex workers in particular is that many of us are already very familiar with gift cards and similar store credit services. We may even have regular business expenses such as a prepaid mobile phone (eSIM) line or hotel bookings we need to make to run our business.

Since gift cards and store credit systems are already a certain kind of alternative digital local currency, cryptocurrency is a natural fit. As a result, an entire crypto gift card marketplace industry has emerged to support this particular off-ramp. While different crypto-to-gift-card exchange service providers support different currencies, Zashi’s built-in decentralized exchange ZEC off-ramp solves that problem, so the main considerations for those of us who want to use this method to spend our cryptocurrency funds are:

  • finding a crypto to gift card exchange provider that partners with a brand we want to buy from, and
  • ensuring that the exchange provider’s terms of use and their “Know Your Customer” rules doesn’t risk our privacy more than we are comfortable with.

I strongly suggest talking to your friends and colleagues about what services they like and feel safe using, and why. But if you’re just starting from scratch, read on to learn about my favorite services.

Pay for stuff via Flexa in Zashi

One crypto gift card marketplace vendor in particular deserves a special mention, Flexa, because you can use them directly from my favorite Zcash wallet app, Zashi. If you’ve installed the mainstream version of Zashi (i.e., from the Google Play Store or the Apple App Store, but not from the F-Droid strictly free software app repository), you’ll have the option to spend your shielded ZEC from within your Zashi wallet by converting it directly to a Flexa account balance, which is basically a multi-store gift card manager mini-app inside Zashi itself.

As of this writing, some Flexa partners include Ulta Beauty and Kiehl’s (cosmetic and skincare product brands, useful for the obvious reasons), Sheetz (a convenience store and gas station chain, useful if you often drive yourself to outcalls), and Chipotle, which I guess is mostly noteworthy for personal reasons because one of my partners loves Mexican food, so I get to treat them here often. :)

First, set up Zashi to work with Flexa as privately as possible by enabling Zashi’s built-in Tor network privacy features. Once that’s set up do this to use Flexa from within Zashi:

  1. Open your Zashi wallet app. Make sure you have some ZEC in it, enough to cover the cost of the thing you’re about to buy in the local fiat currency where you’re buying it (such as in US Dollars if you’re in the United States).
  2. Tap the “More…” button in the Zashi main screen.
  3. Tap the “Pay with Flexa” item in the resulting list.
  4. If this is the first time you’ve used Flexa, you’ll be asked to complete a brief registration process where you are asked for your name and email address. At this point, there are a few things you should know:
  5. Once you have a Flexa account, you’ll be given a “Flexa QR code” that is basically just a barcode that participating brands can scan as a native payment. It’s that easy. But you’ll also see a “More instant payments” box at the bottom of your screen. These are “legacy Flexa brands,” which are the stores at which you need to tell the cashier that you want to pay using a “gift card” or “store credit.” To use these:
    1. Tap the logo icon for the brand you want to pay for. This will let you create a one-time use virtual gift card and load it up using your Zcash funds.
    2. Enter the amount you owe at the register. If the cashier tells you that your total is $20 USD, enter that amount under the brand’s logo.
    3. Press or tap the Confirm button. A new brand-specific virtual gift card QR code will appear.
    4. Tell the cashier you have your gift card ready. They will ask you to scan it. Do so, and you’ll have paid!

I have successfully used Flexa this way and, while it’s currently limited to supported business partners, it is by far the easiest way to spend my ZEC on real, physical stuff.

If you need something from a store that doesn’t have a Flexa partnership, you can still maybe find it from another cryptocurrency to gift card vendor.

Common cryptocurrency to gift card off-ramps (for sex workers)

When you’re using the gift card economy to spend your cryptocurrency, the first challenge is figuring out which service can get you a gift card from a brand you want to purchase from.

The cryptocurrency to gift card vendor I know most about is Bitrefill (referral link), because they’re one of the largest. Another popular one I use is Piggy.Cards (referral link).

Both Bitrefill and Piggy.Cards sells gift cards to a plethora of well-known brands by accepting cryptocurrency as payment for them. You can buy these even more privately by browsing the sites via Tor Browser. If or when you hit purchase limits, you can create a “basic account” with Bitrefill to get decently large spending limits ($10,000 USD per month). Signing up with any name and any working email you like will work fine. (I didn’t use a legal identity to sign up and have no trouble using the site.) If you want to give Bitrefill or Piggy.Cards a try, signing up with my referral links will also earn you (and me) additional discounts and initial spending money.

Join Bitrefill (via referral) Join Piggy.Cards (via referral)

Since there are so many purchases available at these sites, I’ve also compiled the below list to help you get a sense of what’s available and may be particularly useful for us as sex workers via this particular gift card off-ramping site.

You can also find gift cards for other common sex worker needs, including airline and hotel bookings, at gift card off-ramping sites like these. However, remember that the gift card economy is still actually part of the fiat economy. When possible, it’s best to avoid converting your cryptocurrency back to fiat currency, whether to avoid privacy incursions or simply due to the inconvenience. That’s where specialty services come in.

Use specialty exchange service providers

Instead of gift cards, which is really just a roundabout way to help fiat economy vendors accept cryptocurrency without actually accepting cryptocurrency payments, there are also a class of business-to-consumer (B2C) middlemen that will accept payments in cryptocurrency and interface with vendors on your behalf.

Booking hotel stays and air travel with cryptocurrency

When I’m on tour, I often need to buy airline tickets to travel or make hotel arrangements to coordinate an incall. This is where Travala (referral link) comes in clutch. It works like you’d expect any other flight and hotel booking platform to work, but you can pay directly in cryptocurrency. They also have a loyalty proram, so you you can earn extra rewards, and help me do the same if you sign up via my referral link.

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Perhaps the fastest way to demonstrate how this service works is to just watch what happens at its payment screen.

Travala’s payment options includes direct cryptocurrency transfer with dozens upon dozens of different supported cryptocurrencies, including the popular ones. While Travala doesn’t support Zcash directly, remember you can still use Zashi’s decentralized off-ramp to pay in Bitcoin or whatever other cryptocurrency you like directly from your Zcash balance.

Here’s a screenshot of a reservation made on their site about to get paid in Bitcoin.

Screenshot of the Travala hotel booking payment method selection screen.

And here’s what happens when you press the “Complete Reservation” button.

Screenshot of the Travala hotel booking payment request screen.

Kinda looks like Tryst’s payment screen, doesn’t it?

You can also buy airline tickets on Travala this same way.

Join a digital employment cooperative that accepts cryptocurrency

So far, the cryptocurrency off-ramping options I’ve described largely avoid unnecessary interaction with the fiat economy. Turning away from traditional financial and governmental systems is becoming increasingly important. However, it can also brand us illegitimate to individuals or institutions who do interact with that world and who, for whatever reason, we are also forced to interact with.

Unfortunately, lacking traditional legitimacy often means lacking important safety nets that come with traditional employment, like medical/health insurance and retirement plan benefits. It also means struggling to show proof of income in many situations where we still need it, such as taking out a fiat loan or renting from a landlord. Crucially, we as sex workers are not alone in this frustration! While stigma against sex work puts up even more obstacles for us in these situations, on paper at least these challenges are similar to those faced by freelancers more generally.

Let me be absolutely clear: I firmly believe the current system is unredeemable. As the fiat world continues failing to provide many of us our most basic needs, alternatives will be urgent sooner rather than later. On a personal level, I don’t even care why this empire is crumbling; whether my government failed me out of malice or whether it failed me because it’s incompetent is not something I have the luxury of thoroughly investigating. I just need a solution, and I need it yesterday.

One novel angle from which to attack this problem comes in the form of digital employment cooperatives, sometimes also called a freelancer’s union (not to be confused with The Freelancer’s Union). If you can join these institutions, they offer a way to legitimize your income, whether fiat or cryptocurrency. This means you get some of the benefits of traditional employment while retaining the freedom of being an independent worker.

Despite not being suitable for or available to everyone, this kind of thing is still worth knowing about. So, let’s look at one such off-ramp next.

Opolis: a crypto-native independent employment platform

Opolis (referral link) is a novel digital employment cooperative you may be able to join (if you meet minimum income or eligibility requirements based on your needs, see below) that can offer a way to legitimize your income, including any earnings from cryptocurrency transactions. With Opolis, rather than work “under the table,” you set things up like a traditional business, funnel your earnings through that business, and then pay yourself back as a salaried employee.

After reading this, if you want to join Opolis, you can help me by joining via my referral link:

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In plain language, the whole setup works like this.

  1. Register a legal business entity, such as an S-Corp that, obviously, provides high-quality “consulting,” “coaching,” “personal continuing education,” or similar kinds of services. I’m being perfectly honest when I say I’ve discussed nuances of the JavaScript programming language with some of my clients! My state of dress during those discussions is neither here nor there.
  2. You then hire yourself as an employee of that business, so you can pay yourself a salary out of the business’s future revenue.
  3. Your business entity then partners (joins) with the Opolis business cooperative, which collectively negotiates employee benefits like health insurance plans.
  4. Finally, your business in turn offers those employment benefits to you, the “human resource” (employee).

Yes, this tactic introduces complexity to your work. It means you have to go through the process of registering a business, like picking a name and choosing which State is best for you to register your business in. But the rubber meets the road when on-ramping same as it did before, if not even better.

  • Getting paid directly in crypto is no different, just show a client your QR code from a cryptocurrency wallet.
  • You can use your registered business as a further shield to protect your individual privacy for accepting fiat payments like deposits when using your corporate bank account linked to fiat payment apps, notably Zelle. Just make sure you’ve registered your business in a privacy-friendly state like Delaware, Nevada, or Wyoming, and via a third-party registered agent so that you don’t have to list your legal identity as a publicly disclosed member of the corporation.

Now that you’re earning revenue on behalf of your business, you’ll need to record those funds in some accounting software. (I prefer to use GnuCash for this, but I’ve also heard good things about Rotki.) This way, you can treat it as your business’s taxable income for reporting when your business pays member dues in the cryptocurrencies Opolis supports. Yes, it also means you’re now going to pay taxes; that’s the cost of fiat legitimacy.

As a trans sex worker, my main motivation for looking into this option is my need for safe and reliable HRT medicine (it’s expensive to be trans in America). Unfortunately, Opolis has minimum income requirements that puts it out of my reach, at least for now. But when (not if 🙏🏻) I eventually make enough to meaningfully benefit from further professionalizing my independent business this way, this business cooperative approach seems like a good one.

A few other points to know about this off-ramp:

  • I will personally vouch for Opolis being as sex worker friendly as they need to be for someone like me to join.
    • They’re not tracking your hours or looking into the specifics of your business or clientelle.
    • When meeting with their agents, I was not subtle about what industry I’m in. The agent I spoke with did not bat an eye, and didn’t pry.
  • Also, you don’t need to be earning all of your income from sex work to join. What matters is how much you’re making in total so that you (as a business) can afford to run payroll while covering operating expenses, employee compensation (salary and benefits), and paying taxes or other applicable fees.
  • No, this is not likely to be feasible for survival sex workers. For some mid-range or higher-end escorts, part-time workers, or sex workers who also freelance in civilian industries as gig workers, however, joining a digital employment cooperative like this one could both level up their business and further integrate them with the cryptocurrency economy.

I’d love to hear about your experience if you try something like this so please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if you do!

Convert crypto back to fiat currency

I need to write this up, too. Basically it’s just going back to an exchange where you are okay KYC’ing to your fiat identity.

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I’m driven by novelty and curiosity, so I’m already eager to meet you. Yes, you. My booking form, below, will help you draft an inquiry and make the perfect first impression! (More tips for making a good first impression.) Click the small info symbol (ⓘ) linked beside a field for detailed information about what’s expected in it.

Hi, Violet.

Please allow me to introduce myself.

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I've been drawn to you since…

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I'm ready to plan a date!

hour(s) . Would either of these options allow us to meet?

I'm excited to hear from you!

3. Paste your inquiry message text into the Signal chat!

Connection Methods

I can be reached via any of the following channels, though I strongly prefer encrypted messaging via Signal Private Messenger. (You’ll earn a $40 USD discount for booking entirely over Signal as a thank you for helping to protect your privacy and mine.)

When reaching out to book a session, only messages that include all of the same information that my booking form asks you to provide will receive a reply. If you don't receive a reply, this is likely why.

Otherwise, you may also contact me via email addressed to [email protected], using WhatsApp, and finally by text/SMS to +13473157531 if necessary.

Please be patient as it may take a day for me to reply.

In the meantime, explore the Good Client Guide for more helpful advice about how to prepare for your date with a provider like me, or have a look at some of my hot friends.

First Contact

In your first message

My booking form can help you write a message that includes all the information I need from you for us to meet. When writing me, always include:

  • Your preferred name.
  • When you're hoping to see me; supply both a preferred and an alternate date and time.
  • How long you'd like to see me for. See my rates for helpful guidance in selecting a duration.
  • Where you want to meet: my place/"incall," your place/"outcall," or indicate a social date/meet and greet. Look up my travel dates if you're not sure where I'll be.
  • If this is our first contact, choose a screening method you're comfortable using. Screening is easy and mandatory.

Do's and don'ts

Here are some things to keep in mind when writing me. Please:

do… do not…
include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form. write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me.
mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then. use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults.
speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting. speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group.
be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults. under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is in any way involved.

Please do reach out without fear of your gender, race, ethnicity, size, or religion. I respond best to respectful inquiries from individuals or couples who are fueled by my energy, are hungry for intimacy, or eager to shed lingering shames.

Explore the Good Client Guide for more communication tips and generally useful information.

Screening options

If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to complete my lightweight screening process. Everyone must screen. (Why?)

I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.

You can successfully screen by completing any one (1) of the following requirements:

  • attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid, clearly readable government-issued photo ID card/document plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • attaching a selfie plus a LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
  • scheduling and sending a deposit for a meet-and-greet/social-only date (at my social rate) where we will physically meet in a public venue.

I consider messages that lack screening information to be incomplete. I may not reply to them. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

Booking Form

Tours and Travel locations

As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly, so you’ll want to plan in advance or risk rolling the dice on our stars aligning. My travel calendar, embedded below, is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be at any given time.

You can subscribe to my calendar directly via your Google Calendar to get reminders ahead of when I'll be in a new city. You can also bring me to you by sponsoring a tour or booking an extended date.

With advanced scheduling, I'm also passport-ready and available:

  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or more.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or more.
  • some international locales.

Rates Policies Booking Form

Availability

As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together.

Incall Availability

I can privately host us at:

  • a luxury condo in New York City near several city public transit lines
  • a private house with a dedicated play room in the Boston/North Shore area

Showers and easy street parking are available at both locations.

Outcall Availability

If you would like to host:

  • I require round-trip fare for car service (including 20% tip for drivers) in addition to my usual rate paid up front.
  • For safety, I only meet new friends for the first time at a 4- or 5-star hotel, not at their personal residence. If you would like to book me for outcalls to your home, please first book a social-only date so that we may get comfortable with one another.

Hotel arrangements

If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice) at cost for the hotel reservation.

Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)

Short notice availability

My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:

  • lack of foreplanning may incur a rush fee to cover last-minute higher lodging or travel costs.
  • new friends are still required to screen, which may take time, so I encourage you to get pre-screened if you often need this kind of spontaneous appointment.

Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.

Rates Policies Booking Form

Frequently Asked Questions (and Answers)

When choosing a companion, especially for the first time, you may have a lot of questions. A lot of these questions get asked very frequently, so I’ve gathered them here to make my answers easier for you to find, and easier for me to reference when needed.

Violet relaxes in the sands of a beach on all fours as she enjoys the waves.

  1. Why must I screen? / Screening makes me nervous.
  2. How do I pass your screening process?
  3. Do you entertain groups?
  4. Is it okay if I am older/need a wheelchair/Black/genderqueer/etc.?
  5. May I request a specific outfit or makeup?
  6. What does your QR code tramp stamp go to?
  7. What should I wear for our date?
  8. When will you be in my city?
  9. Will you dominate me?

Why must I screen? / Screening makes me nervous.

I understand why screening may make you feel anxious. But the thought of spending time alone with me presumably doesn’t.

Consider that, until we are physically acquainted, the thought of spending time alone with you may make me slightly anxious, but screening you doesn’t.

Screening is meant to feel asymmetrical because its purpose is to restore some balance to the way we start out.

The thing about balance is that it’s very comfortable. After all, what is grace if not extreme levels of balance? When one is subjected to massive nonerotic power imbalances, it’s hard to get comfortable. One can’t be as open. Getting naked feels intrusive or violating.

And no one wants that. Right?

Moreover, before you screen, I simply cannot know who I may be speaking with. Since literally anyone might contact me, screening confirms that you are a consenting adult and is unconditionally required to interact with me in any meaningful way. For my safety and comfort, I am simply not comfortable significantly engaging with you otherwise.

Screening is easy and you can be done with it after your very first message to me.

How do I pass your screening process?

My screening process is like many other providers’ and is required for our mutual safety and comfort. There are no exceptions. Everyone must screen. (Why?)

The Contact page on my site offers a summary of your screening options. Only one (1) of the listed items is required to successfully pass screening, not all of them. Two of your options are remote and one is in person. Briefly once more, those options are:

  • Attaching a selfie plus a well-established LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a number from a texting app or burner phone) to your next message to me.
  • Attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid government-issued photo ID plus a carrier phone number (not a number from a texting app or burner phone) to your next message to me.
  • Booking me for a platonic, meet-and-greet/social-only date. My usual deposit and cancellation policies will apply.

Again, screening is mandatory; the above listing describes a minimum requirement to pass my screening process. At my sole discretion, I may require additional validation of the information you provide in order to feel comfortable seeing you. The more information you give me before I have to ask for it, the more likely we are to be fantastically compatible. Conversely, if you are not ready to be screened, please wait until you are before contacting me.

Keep these points in mind when screening:

  • Both remote screening options require a selfie and a carrier (non-burner) phone number; it’s not either/or, it’s both/and.
  • Your selfie must be current, must match your LinkedIn profile pic or ID document photo, and must not be the same pic as your profile or ID document photo itself.
  • When sending an ID document, you may redact all information printed on it except your full name, photo, and date of birth (or birth year if that is enough to prove you are not a minor).
  • Ensure the text on your ID is readable. Sending images via SMS/txt often degrades them; I recommend booking via Signal Private Messenger.
  • To make a stellar first impression, consider providing any verification information you feel comfortable offering, whether or not it is listed above.

Finally, please remember that I consider messages lacking screening information to be incomplete and I may simply not reply to them.

Do you entertain groups?

Yes, and happily! I am enthusiastically bisexual and love joining fun-loving straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual couples for all sorts of adventurous shenanigans! I’m also happy to entertain groups of friends at private parties or similar events.

In either case, I’ll simply need each individual participant to screen and reach out to me individually so I can confirm everyone involved is on the same page and consenting, as I can’t accept bookings when communicating through a proxy.

To book me for a group event, simply ask everyone in your party to fill in my booking form and tell them to note that they are part of the same group.

Is it okay if I am older/need a wheelchair/Black/genderqueer/etc.?

Absolutely, wholeheartedly, unequivocally yes, it is okay, and I am deeply disheartened that the world is still such that it makes you feel the need to ask, although I do understand why you do. What matters to me is the way you treat me. As long as you are of legal age, your race, years of experience, looks, religion, nationality, tax bracket, and other demographic information is in no way a determining factor for whether or not I’ll meet with you.

The only information you need to disclose about yourself to see me is the information I ask for in my booking and screening process. The only exception to this is if you have accessibility needs that may prevent me from sufficiently accomodating you at my incall or you have other factors such as medical conditions you’d like to disclose to ensure I can appropriately prepare for and ensure that our time together is enjoyable for us.

Beyond that, I will also keep in mind anything else you do feel is important to share with me and will pay attention to how that can affect our experience together.

May I request a specific outfit or makeup?

Yes and yes! I love knowing what gets you going! With enough time to prepare, we can make fantasies come to life!

While my usual look is “casual but kinky,” I have a growing collection of leather, lace, and lingerie, including some cute specialty items like garters and chokers good for roleplay or fetish scenes. I also tend to wear only very light amounts of makeup (for that natural “no-makeup makeup” look), unless asked to do otherwise. If you want me to arrive “all done up,” don’t skimp on a tip for my salon appointment!

Please always feel comfortable requesting something specific, but remember that if I don’t already have it on hand, I’ll ask you to cover the cost of the item. Otherwise, you may need to acquire it yourself and bring it with you to our date. In fact, bringing gifts like this is an extremely reliable way to ensure a fantastic time with me!

See also: “What should I wear for our date?

What does your QR code tramp stamp go to?

Hmm, that’s for me to know, and for you to bend me over to find out. Book me.

What should I wear for our date?

The short answer is: wear whatever you’re comfortable in. Yes, for real! If we’re going out, dress in whatever’s appropriate for the venue or activity. You can always ask me for my thoughts if you’re still unsure.

When we’re in private, it’s really more about inviting one another into our respective spaces—physically and emotionally—so I feel like the phrase “come as you are” is very fitting. I personally feel that comfort over curation is a superior approach more often than not.

What should I wear for video dates?

For video dates, the biggest difference from in-person dates (for me anyway), is that they tend to have this feel of, like, “dropping in” to whatever part of our day is happening. This tends to make video dates either have a very premeditated intention or the exact opposite, where we discover the vibe together.

I’ve had a lot of fun on morning video dates while still in my nightie. I’ve had fun on video dates late at night after just arriving home from a club! And I’ve had fun on video dates in between laptop work sessions. And I was more or less dressed as you’d expect for each of those…at least at first. ;)

As for my date’s outfit, in one memorable case, he wore a cozy flannel number and loose shorts and was in his living room. It’s also not unusual to wear whatever you might go to bed in, especially if you’ll be video’ing from bed. A robe, perhaps, or pajamas! It’s also okay, with me at least, if you want to show up naked, though it’s courteous to limit that to dates intentionally set up for this kind of experience, i.e., only if we’ve agreed on that beforehand!

Personally, I prefer to start clothed and undress on camera during our date, because I think that’s part of the fun of a real-time, live experience! So if matching me would help your nerves at all, consider when our video date is scheduled for. Early morning, I’ll probably be in more casual wear. Mid-day, I’ll be in a cute daytime ‘fit for turning heads when out and about. Later at night, more likely something befitting my nightlife hobbies!

Regardless, I’m also always happy to accomodate requests. Whatever I’ll be in, I’ll be looking forward to slowly peeling it off of myself to give you a peek at what’s underneath. 😘

When will you be in my city?

I religiously maintain my public travel calendar, which will show you where I’m planning to be and when. You can even subscribe to it directly in your calendaring application of choice, like Google Calendar, and get notified of when I’ll be in a new city. However, you are much more likely to find me in your city if you bring me to it!

With advanced scheduling, I'm also passport-ready and available:

  • anywhere with train access in the tri-state area for bookings of 3 hours or more.
  • domestically (within the continental United States) for bookings of 6 hours or more.
  • some international locales.

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Will you dominate me?

In brief: no, I don’t offer services in which I play a stereotypically dominant role. The one exception to this is chastity keyholding when part of an established dynamic; I do love to please via tease!

A more nuanced answer: I am exclusively submissive but, make no mistake, my submission is far from meek. I’m more of a power princess than pillow princess, and I adore co-creating unique dynamics tailor-made to specific fantasies. This can take time and will surely feel intensely intimate (because it is), but the rewards are literally once-in-a-lifetime experiences that turn fantasies into realities in otherwise impossible ways.

My innate confidence, boisterous joy, and shamelessly eager sexuality makes me anything but a cookie cutter submissive partner. I’ll happily toy with you if you can give as good as you get, and I relish diving into psychological nuances of complex power play.

If you are simply looking for a one-on-one session with a traditional pro-domme to bottom to or receive specific sensations from, I can refer you to one of my very hot dominant partners.

Otherwise, consider that many kinds of play are enhanced by the presence of a fellow submissive like me. These include cuck sessions, co-bottoming, tandem bondage buddies, group play, or creative “sub4sub” vibes.

As part of a duo or group, I thoroughly enjoy contributing to your demise under the direction of a dominant to whom we are both submitting. Or maybe we are simply exploring as two submissives? Maybe we tie our wrists together, then tug and touch each other all over; let’s egg each other on in an endless game of truth or dare; we can amplify our kinks in unexpected ways! Perhaps we’ll even invite some friends to watch us—and, perhaps, to touch us. The more creative, the better!

Once you have successfully screened, I’m also happy to discuss and suggest more intricate details for unique encounters like these to help you fulfill fantasies you may not even know you have yet!

Duo Partners

Plug and play

Spending quality time together one-on-one is lovely, but I'd be remiss not to introduce you to some of my stunning friends. So if you're looking for even more plug and play fun, I can coordinate threesomes (or moresomes) in a range of configurations with the extraordinary providers I list here. And please let me know if you'd like to see me with a provider who isn't listed. We could develop an expansion pack together….

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