Violet Rollergirl’s guide to spending crypto as a client of sex workers
Having cryptocurrency is nice, but it doesn’t do much until you spend it. Here are some suggestions for what to spend your cryptocurrency assets on, beyond booking dates with your favorite provider, of course!
Buying your crush gifts using crypto is also good practice for the mechanics of buying stuff with crypto if trying to coordinate a real booking with it makes you nervous.
ⓘ This page is for clients or customers. If you are a provider, seller, or vendor you should instead read Violet Rollergirl’s Resources for Providers Using Cryptocurrency (as a Sex Worker).
In this article
- Just send money
- Send gift cards
- Gift consumables, not junk
- Subscribe and become a fan
- Support the causes and tools that support us
- Have suggestions? Get in touch!
Just send money
First, let me clarify something.
Nothing will make her happier than money. I promise. Just send money.
You don’t need to get clever nor even put a lot of thought into it. You need to promise less and follow through more. You need to stop fantasizing about her and start fulfilling her actual needs.
And if you’re spending money on a gift anyway, you could just send a tip of that amount in crypto instead.
Send gift cards
If you want to gift a thing but don’t know exactly what to get, gift cards are an extremely good choice.
You can buy gift cards for generic retailers like Amazon.com or Etsy from cryptocurrency-supporting gift card vendors, like the ones listed below. These are so generally useful that I also accept some of them as one of my deposit payment options.
A gift card lets you say something nice with a bit more context than sending crypto directly. Those of us on social media are rarely shy about dropping hints for ways you can delight us with gifts like these! Show your crush that you pay attention to them, and already know what they like.
I recommend these sites:
There are literally thousands of gift card brands to be found here. Some gift card vendors even provide “cashback” programs where your purchase earns you savings on your own future purchases, making them ideal for frugal gifters.
You don’t need to know a companion’s email address or other personal information to send them a gift card. Once you buy it, click to “unseal” it, or simply note the code on the digital card you got. Then send that code to your crush. Voila, instant happy day!
Gift consumables, not junk
Maybe you want your gift to be a little more festive and fun. In that case, see if you can find anything on her wishlist that you can buy with cryptocurrency using a gift card.
Barring that, I suggest gifting your companion a consumable good, rather than something permanent.
- 💐 Flowers are pretty, easy to take care of, and won’t last forever. That’s good because it means you are less likely to add junk to her life. SocialFlowers.com is a site that lets you send real flowers across the United States and Canada while accepting numerous cryptocurrencies (via EukaPay) as payment for them!
Subscribe and become a fan
If the provider you have eyes for is also creating content like yours truly, you can load up your OnlyFans account balance using crypto via PayWithMoon, and subscribe to her fan site! This is a fun way to treat yourself while supporting her, too.
Support the causes and tools that support us
You can also show your appreciation in less direct ways that are still extremely valuable. I’d even wager that some providers would be more grateful for gifts of this nature because of the way they demonstrate true support of our profession and personal values, rather than mere tolerance or acceptance.
Pay for our escort ads
These days, most reputable escort malls and advertising sites that require us to pay for a searchable listing accept cryptocurrency payments.
In fact, since sex workers face so much financial discrimination from the traditional finance sector, paying for advertisements in cryptocurrency is often the only way we can get or keep our ads up. It’s also often the first reason most providers learn how to use cryptocurrency in the first place!
Simply ask your crush if they’d like you to help them fund their ads. (The answer will be yes.) They’ll be able to set that up easily and send you a cryptocurrency payment address to do so. Here are ad sites I’m listed on and pay for that also accept cryptocurrency:
There are probably others, so ask your crush if these are not relevant to the two of you.
Donate to Signal Private Messenger
My favorite messaging platform as an independent escort is Signal Private Messenger. It is quite simply the messenger with the best balance of being widely adopted, easy to use, and actually secure. It’s also free of charge, solidly reliable, wildly performant, and globally available.
Signal is created and maintained by a non-profit called the Signal Foundation, which can always use more support.
When you donate to Signal, you’re not only indirectly supporting me, you’re also supporting freedom of speech and individual liberties and lowercase-d democratic movements worldwide. You can support Signal with a donation from within the app itself, but you can also donate cryptocurrency to Signal on their website!
To learn more about why Signal is so important for you, too, read my other client guides:
Messaging Discreetly Discretion-Maxxing
Have suggestions? Get in touch!
Do you know of more places to spend cryptocurrency (on a sex worker)? Please write to let me know and I’ll add them here!
