Violet Rollergirl’s guide to spending crypto as a client of sex workers
Having cryptocurrency is nice, but it doesn’t do much until you spend it. Here are some suggestions for what to spend your cryptocurrency assets on, beyond booking dates with your favorite provider, of course!
Buying your crush gifts using crypto is also good practice for the mechanics of buying stuff with crypto if trying to coordinate a real booking with it makes you nervous.
Nothing will make her happier than money. I promise. Just send money.
You don’t need to get clever nor even put a lot of thought into it. You need to promise less and follow through more. You need to stop fantasizing about her and start fulfilling her actual needs.
And if you’re spending money on a gift anyway, you could just send a tip of that amount in crypto instead.
Send gift cards
If you want to gift a thing but don’t know exactly what to get, gift cards are an extremely good choice.
You can buy gift cards for generic retailers like Amazon.com or Etsy from cryptocurrency-supporting gift card vendors, like the ones listed below. These are so generally useful that I also accept some of them as one of my deposit payment options.
A gift card lets you say something nice with a bit more context than sending crypto directly. Those of us on social media are rarely shy about dropping hints for ways you can delight us with gifts like these! Show your crush that you pay attention to them, and already know what they like.
There are literally thousands of gift card brands to be found here. Some gift card vendors even provide “cashback” programs where your purchase earns you savings on your own future purchases, making them ideal for frugal gifters.
You don’t need to know a companion’s email address or other personal information to send them a gift card. Once you buy it, click to “unseal” it, or simply note the code on the digital card you got. Then send that code to your crush. Voila, instant happy day!
Gift consumables, not junk
Maybe you want your gift to be a little more festive and fun. In that case, see if you can find anything on her wishlist that you can buy with cryptocurrency using a gift card.
Barring that, I suggest gifting your companion a consumable good, rather than something permanent.
💐 Flowers are pretty, easy to take care of, and won’t last forever. That’s good because it means you are less likely to add junk to her life. SocialFlowers.com is a site that lets you send real flowers across the United States and Canada while accepting numerous cryptocurrencies (via EukaPay) as payment for them!
You can also show your appreciation in less direct ways that are still extremely valuable. I’d even wager that some providers would be more grateful for gifts of this nature because of the way they demonstrate true support of our profession and personal values, rather than mere tolerance or acceptance.
Pay for our escort ads
These days, most reputable escort malls and advertising sites that require us to pay for a searchable listing accept cryptocurrency payments.
In fact, since sex workers face so much financial discrimination from the traditional finance sector, paying for advertisements in cryptocurrency is often the only way we can get or keep our ads up. It’s also often the first reason most providers learn how to use cryptocurrency in the first place!
Simply ask your crush if they’d like you to help them fund their ads. (The answer will be yes.) They’ll be able to set that up easily and send you a cryptocurrency payment address to do so. Here are ad sites I’m listed on and pay for that also accept cryptocurrency:
There are probably others, so ask your crush if these are not relevant to the two of you.
Donate to Signal Private Messenger
My favorite messaging platform as an independent escort is Signal Private Messenger. It is quite simply the messenger with the best balance of being widely adopted, easy to use, and actually secure. It’s also free of charge, solidly reliable, wildly performant, and globally available.
Signal is created and maintained by a non-profit called the Signal Foundation, which can always use more support.
When you donate to Signal, you’re not only indirectly supporting me, you’re also supporting freedom of speech and individual liberties and lowercase-d democratic movements worldwide. You can support Signal with a donation from within the app itself, but you can also donate cryptocurrency to Signal on their website!
To learn more about why Signal is so important for you, too, read my other client guides:
Brilliant, bubbly, and beautiful, I don't wait to be entertained; I'll make the first move, get you laughing, and invite you into the moment with grace and without pressure.
It's okay if I'm your "first" because, don't worry, you wouldn't be mine!
Whether seeking companionship is new to you, or companionship with a trans woman specifically, I create a space where exploring our unique chemistry unfolds at your pace.
I love connection—the kind where you feel seen and heard, and deeply. The sort of genuine coupling where our affection lingers in your mind long after we say goodnight.
For me, intimacy is the practice of trust, timing, and tension. Every shared look, touch felt, and word spoken is a deliberate choice, a dance in spaces between confidence and curiosity.
I believe pleasure is most profound when wrapped in the comfort of safety, yet without sacrificing the thrill of adventure. Our connection will be compassionate and cuddly, not chaotic.
I'm bubbly, witty, playful, kind, and unapologetically curious about everything, especially you. Make me yearn for you by being as uninhibited and free-spirited in my presence as I am in yours.
Meet me at my well-equipped private spaces in NYC and Boston, or bring me to you for a rendezvous as limitless as our imaginations.
I'm fit, freckled, and fascinated by the way technology, touch, and emotion intersect. I have skin softer than silk and equally soft hair in curly red ringlets, with a mind sharper than a diamond's edge.
Maybe you've guessed: science fiction (Star Trek or Star Wars—I'm not religious!), cyberpunk retro tech, techno beats, and vintage video games are my happy places. There are depths to discover about how I've become "the girl with the QR code tattoo."
I'm obsessed with projects that keep my brain spinning as fast as my wheels. My current fixation? Navigating cryptocurrency charts and blockchain rabbit holes. I'm the rare girl who appreciates both a perfectly executed API and a perfectly paired wine.
Nerdy? Perhaps. But decoding patterns whets my appetite for discovery…in all its forms.
My candy coating comes in a couple flavors, but poise and courage season them all.
Catch me running the pool table in my skirt—and my skates! Feel how I shift between rooftop cocktails and dive bar mischief.
I'm not new to power exchange. I've studied it, lived it, brought it to life in clubs from Brooklyn to Berlin.
Want to explore your dominant side? I get kinkier than my curls. Years in leather and BDSM circles taught me control and surrender are a language—one I'm fluent in.
Whether you're looking for an oasis of affection, something deliciously darker, or a unique mix of sweetness and spice, I'm your perfect power princess, not a passive pillow princess.
…who thinks as much as you feel, who laughs before they lean in, who appreciates genuine connection over pretense? Maybe it's time you met Brooklyn's Power Princess.
Friendly, casual audio call to help you decide whether you’d like to book an in-person session, prepare for our date by chatting, discussing any logistics, or simply to quell any concerns.
For first-time clients, the price of this call can be applied towards your deposit if you book within one (1) month.
Party hard, play harder! I’ll be all yours for two full days (except for some solo moments to let us freshen up for one another in our mysterious ways), so you can enjoy a weekend escape with me.
Full service with BDSM is available when negotiated.
Available only to returning friends after our first date.
Discounted rates available for longer bookings as shown.
Does not include incall fee or transportation cost.
My rates for incalls and outcalls are the same. An additional incall fee may apply at some of my incall locations or to cover hotel arrangements. As transportation costs for outcalls vary greatly, they are also not included in the fee schedule.
Each in-date extension equals my base hourly rate for the booked service (e.g., 1 hour). Please inquire about rates for content shoots or collaborations, longer multi-day dates, travel to/with you (“TMTY/FMTY”) bookings, or ongoing arrangements. I accept numerous payment methods.
I accept deposits via dozens of cryptocurrencies (e.g., ZEC preferred, XMR, USDC, BTC, ETH, and dozens of others accepted), major debit or credit cards, some gift cards, or select privacy-preserving payment apps. (Which ones?)
One-fifth (20%) of the total booking cost while in my hometown(s).
One-third (33%) of the total booking cost while touring.
As a first-time client, a deposit also entitles you to an optional, free curiosity call enjoyed a minimum of 48 hours before our scheduled date.
Deposits are non-transferable and non-refundable, except in the rare case I must cancel our date, but they can be applied to another date should you need to reschedule. (See my cancellation policy for details.) Our time together is confirmed only after I receive your deposit.
It's okay, you can always cancel or reschedule a date for any reason, no questions asked. If you cancel with:
3 or more days (72 hours) notice, 100% of your deposit can be applied toward the fee for a rescheduled date.
3 to 1 days (72-24 hours) notice, 50% of your deposit can be applied toward the fee for a rescheduled date.
1 day or less (24 hours) notice, your deposit will be forfeited, and I'll expect to receive the remainder of my fee before I'll consider scheduling with you again.
I honor reapplied deposits for up to 3 months into the future. Past deposits cannot be used as a deposit again. They only apply towards the next date's fee, not their deposits; each booking unconditionally requires a deposit to reserve my time.
In the rare event I'm forced to cancel our date, I'll offer to promptly return your full deposit to you and will make every effort to give us another opportunity to meet.
(Please note that I accept patronage for my time and companionship only.)
I strongly prefer encrypted messaging via Signal Private Messenger. (You’ll earn a $40 USD discount off our first date if you book entirely over Signal as a thank you for helping to protect your privacy and mine. Learn how to earn more discounts….)
Please be patient as it may take a day for me to reply.
Occasionally, I send cute updates and neat announcements to friends and lovers via my newsletter. This includes information about upcoming tours, a range of special social and industry-adjacent events, and even the rare special discount or deal. Subscribing is optional, free, never X-rated, and you can unsubscribe at any time.
(Subscribing to my newsletter requires a double opt-in confirmation. When subscribed, you agree to provide some light telemetry as part of industry-standard analytics. If you want to receive tour information more discreetly, please view or subscribe to my tour calendar, instead.)
You may also want to review my “do’s and don’ts” for making first contact. My FAQ page can also allay any concerns you may have.
Especially generic messages are likely to trigger my spam filter or auto-responder; I may not see them.
If you’d like even more handholding, I wrote a thorough step-by-step Booking Guide just for you!
In your first message
My booking form can help you write a message that includes all the information I need from you for us to meet. When writing me, always include:
Your preferred name.
When you're hoping to see me; supply both a preferred and an alternate date and time.
How long you'd like to see me for. See my rates for helpful guidance in selecting a duration.
Where you want to meet: my place/"incall," your place/"outcall," or indicate a social date/meet and greet. Look up my travel dates if you're not sure where I'll be.
Here are some things to keep in mind when writing me. Please:
do…
do not…
include all the information I require of you to schedule your booking in your very first message, including your screening information. I may not reply to messages that lack any piece of info requested by my booking form.
write only “hey,” or omit any of the requested information. If you're wondering why I'm not replying, it’s most likely because you didn't include something I asked you for. If you're not sure what to write, fill in my booking inquiry form to draft a complete first message to me.
mention any specific needs, desires, or concerns you have in a respectful, professional tone. For our mutual safety, I will not reply to explicit or vulgar communication until after you have passed screening because I simply do not know who you are until then.
use sexually explicit or vulgar language. I understand the desire to clarify or set such expectations early on, but any such discussion must wait until you have passed my screening so that we can speak to each other confident in the knowledge that we are both consenting adults.
speak only for yourself, even if you are part of a couple or group; each member of your party must contact me individually so I know everyone is on the same page and consenting.
speak for anyone other than yourself in your party if you are part of a couple or group.
be past the age of majority, usually eighteen years of age or older. I only ever see people who are legally considered adults.
under any circumstances, ever contact me if you are or on behalf of a minor. I will cease correspondence with you immediately upon learning that a minor is in any way involved.
If we're not yet acquainted, such as when you're writing to me for the first time, you'll need to attach safety screening info or pass one of my alternative safety check processes. (Why?)
I treat your information with the utmost confidentiality, as discretion and screening helps assure our mutual safety and comfort.
To successfully screen, complete any one (1) of the following requirements:
Screening method 1: attaching a selfie of yourself holding a valid government-issued photo ID card/document showing at least your full name, birthyear, and photo (the rest may be redacted), plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
Screening method 2: attaching a selfie plus a LinkedIn profile link plus a carrier phone number (not a texting app or burner/VoIP number) to the message you send when you contact me, or
Screening alternative 1: scheduling a paid video vibe check, where we will video chat using Signal Private Messenger so you can provide the minimal information from your legal ID document for me to verify in real-time. I'll join the video chat after I receive your payment for the video call.
Screening alternative 2: scheduling and sending a deposit for a meet-and-greet/social-only date (at my social rate) where we will physically meet in a public venue.
Messages that lack screening information may not receive a reply. If you need help writing an inquiry, use my booking form to draft a completed one. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
As an extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust, I travel frequently and sometimes suddenly. My travel calendar is updated from time to time, and reflects my best estimate of where I’ll be. Planning ahead is the best way to ensure I’ll make availability for you.
As I have autonomy over my time, with proper planning I can often be available at most times of the day or night. That said, I’m not a morning kitten, and planning our date 2 or more days in advance will give us the best experience together. I'm discerning and selective, so while same-day sessions are possible, I always prioritize returning friends and longer bookings over short-notice quickies with new friends.
in NYC: several private options near public transit lines, including a luxury condo and decadent dungeon
in Boston/North Shore: a quiet house with a dedicated kinky play room
Showers () and easy parking () are available at all my incalls in both cities.
Outcall Availability
If you would like to host:
Please add round-trip fare for car service (including 20% tip for drivers), in addition to my usual rate.
When meeting one another for the first time, I may decline to see you at a personal residence. If that's what you had in mind, consider scheduling a curiosity call or video date with me beforehand.
Hotel arrangements
If you're unable to host an outcall, I'm happy to arrange a hotel meet (with minimum 24 hours notice) for an additional cost of the hotel reservation. I can itemize this charge, and it will be included in your deposit.
Suitors who want to really impress me should consider adding an amount with which to tip the hotel's housekeeping/maid service. (I notice when people don't tip, and I will in their stead.)
My affinity for spontaneity makes same-day trysts occasionally possible IFF seeing one another is convenient for me. When booking with short notice (less than 24 hours), please keep in mind:
lack of foreplanning may incur a rush fee to cover last-minute higher lodging or travel costs.
new friends are still required to screen, which may take time, so I encourage you to get pre-screened if you often need this kind of spontaneous appointment.
Occasionally, I publish last-minute availability on social media; my Links page shows you where you can find and follow me online.
Quick access to payment info including guides for getting started with cryptocurrency and its privacy benefits as a client or customer. (Provider crypto guides also available!)
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Frequently Asked Questions (and Answers)
When choosing a companion, especially for the first time, you may have some questions! A lot of these questions get asked very frequently, so I’ve gathered them here to make my answers easier for you to find, and easier for me to reference when needed.
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